05/27/2026
Here are 3 things I wish I had known before my daughter left home:
1. Two conflicting emotions can exist together.
You can feel proud of them and heartbroken at the same time.
2. The quiet can feel louder than the chaos ever did.
After years of being needed, the silence can feel surprisingly emotional.
3. Preparing yourself matters too.
So many of us focus on launching our children well while neglecting our own health, friendships, purpose, and identity.
I often wish there were some sort of instruction manual for the empty nest, because parts of it can feel far harder and more emotional than anyone really prepares us for… but perhaps that’s because it’s not just our children finding their way, it’s us too. 🤍