Sheryl Martinez, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Sheryl Martinez, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Sheryl of Sheryl Escucha provides online therapy on evenings and weekends. Sheryl speaks English & Spanish.

Sheryl listens (escucha) & uses EMDR, problem-solving, & cognitive therapies to help adult clients manage stress, emotions, & negative thinking.

02/09/2025

Dump Thy Neighbor?

As our new president and his favorite broligarch move to dismantle US foreign aid in the name of making America “great again,” consider this:

There are 8 billion people on this planet. About half of them live on less than $7 a day. Around 10% are in what the UN calls “extreme poverty” — trying to live on less than $2 a day. And 4% of the world's population are Americans who live on an average of about $220 per day.

Before January 21, when Trump froze virtually all foreign aid, the US allocated slightly less than 1% of its wealth to help the world’s poorest people. And for more than 60 years, that work has been done by the US Agency for International Development (USAID), whose goal is both self-serving and compassionate: to “further America's interests while improving lives in the developing world.”

This weekend, Trump declared USAID is run by “liberals and lunatics” — and Elon Musk tweeted it was “time for it to die” as his crew took over the agency’s offices and demanded access to classified material. And today, with Musk crowing, “We spent the weekend feeding USAID into the woodchipper,” we are learning that Marco Rubio is now in control of the agency.

Trump was elected by the most conservative Christians in the USA. But all Christians, whether liberal or conservative, follow the teachings of Jesus Christ — and if you distill Jesus’s message into three words, it’s “love thy neighbor.” As a traveler, I’ve come to understand that if there is a God, then all people are children of their heavenly creator. Therefore, we are all brothers and sisters. And logically, proximity (what country you happen to live in) has nothing to do with “love thy neighbor.”

But let’s just say the typical MAGA American Christian is more of a nationalist than a Christian (a.k.a. a “Christian Nationalist,”) and they care more about being rich and safe than actually loving thy neighbor. The president those Christian Nationalists helped elect, whose slogan is “Make America Great Again,” is in the process of dismantling humanitarian aid in the interest of saving tax dollars. But ironically, pulling out of this work will actually make America less safe and less great. Forgetting about any ethical or Christian-compassion dimension of foreign aid, ending these programs will make the Global South both more desperate and less stable — leaving a huge vacuum for China (which seems to understand the concept of “soft power” much better than MAGA Americans) to fill in these weakened countries. And to top it off, millions of people will no longer be providing a market for us to trade with — and will instead become refugees.

As a traveler who has spent about three months a year overseas for 40 years, who has researched and produced a one-hour TV special called “Hunger and Hope: Lessons from Ethiopia and Guatemala” (www.ricksteves.com/hunger), and whose primary teaching and philanthropic goals have been to fight poverty at home and abroad, I’ve learned something very fundamental: Even if you’re only motivated by greed, if you know what’s good for you and your loved ones, you don’t want to be filthy rich in a desperately poor world. It’s just not a pretty picture.

And if you really want to make America great, the best possible use of US tax dollars is to continue to dedicate less than 1% of the total federal budget to fighting global poverty — not in the name of Jesus, but in the name of a more stable and prosperous world where the USA is a strong leader. (And talk about a twofer…you get to love thy neighbor as well!)

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11/03/2024

I’ll never forget when the news broke that President Trump was going to cut development and humanitarian assistance to Guatemala, Honduras, and El Salvador — as a way to punish the governments of those countries for not stopping their citizens from leaving their homes and migrating to the United States.

I was in Guatemala that day in 2019, filming a public television special about extreme poverty and smart development (“Hunger and Hope: Lessons from Ethiopia and Guatemala”), and the news was heartbreaking.

It was also, frankly, baffling. If your motivation is to slow migration to the US, then development, jobs, and hope south of the border are the best medicine — and US aid is a great and practical investment.

The people I’ve met in Latin American countries love their homes. They want to work hard, feed their families, and join the market economy to enjoy the fruits of their labor. If they make the treacherous trip to the US, it is only out of desperation. Hurting the people who live in these places only slows development, and the result is more refugees at our border...not fewer.

If you’re worried about our southern border, smart aid is a smart investment — and another vote for Trump (who, under Project 2025, will gut such aid) is not the answer.

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