Mynah Bird Death Services

06/10/2025

My loves! My beloved flock! Medical Aid in Dying has just passed the NYS Senate! We're so close! We just need the governor to sign and then you will have the choice and option to leave on your own terms in New York State(where I am based).

I have advocated for this since Terry Shrivo in the 90s when I was younger than 10. This is a momentous victory in the right to death with dignity and Yes I am already trained to assist if this is a decision you wish to make.

Please, if you have any questions about what MAiD is and isn't? Reach out! I would be thrilled to answer any questions you may have.

06/08/2025

Happy Pride my beloved flock ❤️

As a reminder Mynah Bird Death Services LLC is owned and operated by a q***r woman and is aggressively trans supporting and affirming on top of that.

Please make sure you have everything in writing. Including what name to be remembered under.

06/07/2025

Do you support MAiD (medical aid in dying)? Do you live in New York? If so the Senate is voting on allowing MAiD in NYS this coming Monday June 9.

Choices New York is organizing a demonstration at the Capital in support of the bill, I'll be there with bells on and Tulio the grief support pup.

Will you join us?

05/14/2025

Death is a relationship crucible.

It has a way of showing you who is dedicated to their relationship with you and who is not.

This is not to say that your loved ones need to drop everything every time you have a loss. Having their own lives and needs doesn't automatically mean they don't care about you.

Do they check in? Do they hold space for your grief? Do they acknowledge the loss? Do they act with compassion for you?

Those are the folks you want to keep my loves. Even if others 'do more' or are more closely related to you. If someone is bringing you a casserole (the traditional post death community offering where I'm from) but guilt you the whole time they're with you? They're not supporting you.

Dearest flock, it is ok to hold people at a distance after loss, especially if they're not able to honor your grief with compassion.

05/14/2025

Death and Children

One of the biggest reoccurring questions I get is 'how do I explain this to my child?' it doesn't matter what the loss is, human or animal, recent or trying to explain why they haven't met a family member. We're terrified of introducing the concept of death to our little ones. We want to protect them from the existence of it, let them live in a world without it for as long as they can.

My loves, my flock, be honest with them. Be age appropriate, of course, but euphemisms like 'went to sleep' or 'went to heaven' bring follow up questions and fears. Just be honest and compassionate.

Yes, this loved one is gone. We can and should remember them, and charish those memories, but they aren't going to physically come back like they used to be. And it's alright to be sad and scared. But. We loved them, and they loved us. And now we say goodbye with as much love as we can. Because eventually everyone's life ends. And that's ok.

Then, and this is the important part, let them grieve and process. However they're going to do that. There's no wrong way for them to grieve, nor you for that matter.

04/21/2025

Pope Francis passed this morning.

May he find peace in the God he dedicated his life to serving. And may the church remember his guidance in choosing his successor.

04/04/2025

https://charlotteclymer.substack.com/p/trump-picks-golf-over-dead-american

This disgusts me on a viscerally personal level.

Some of you know that my first in person doula client, the one who made Mynah Bird possible, was my adopted step-father. A Navy Chief still on active duty until cancer stole him within 8 months of diagnosis. My uncle and both of my grandfathers served in various branches of the US armed forces.

While I may not agree with how our military is deployed or used, I have nothing but respect for those who've served. The most heart rending sound is a single bugle playing Taps.

For our *president* the commander in chief, the one who our military ostensibly serve, to choose a golf tournament over a dignified transfer?

This is personally and professionally offensive to me and I am disgusted.

Our fallen deserve better. They were there at his command, as ultimately the chain of command leads to him, and gave their lives because he wanted them there. And he didn't bother to dignify them with a half an hour of time in the face of watching golf.

He should be ashamed. He isn't. But he should be.

Because of course he did.

04/03/2025

My loves, I am seeking suggestions! That's right, someone on the internet is actively looking for advice! Mark the calendar.

I am working on launching a Patreon. What sort of things would you expect from a death doula/history Patreon? What would you expect to pay?

I struggle with this because I don't want to paywall death information because there is already so much misinformation and misconceptions out there, but at the same time my dearest flock this is how I support myself and the animals in my employment.

So. Help me help more people and still be able to feed myself!

03/24/2025

https://youtube.com/shorts/HAebMlzTVL8?si=n-CxAFPEI2A5TFjj

03/19/2025

I am pleased to announce the first big bit of news! Beloved flock meet Princess Mabel.

Mabel is a full size Nigerian dwarf and is the first Mynah Bird Grief Support Goat.

Death and grief is difficult for everyone, but particularly children and those with special needs, and those who struggle to ask people for support and care. Once Mabel finishes her training she will be available for funerals, memorial services, and grief support groups.

She's not ready yet, but I couldn't wait any longer to introduce her to you ❤️

03/14/2025

Exciting news one: please welcome the newest employee of Mynah Bird Death Services LLC!

Sargent William Darby joined us around 6am on March 12 roughly 5 minutes after his sister.

After this little darling finishes figuring out how leggies work and grows up a bit more he is destined to join his Auntie Mabel as a grief support goat ❤️

03/03/2025

There are some very exciting developments in the works my loves! I can't wait to share them with you over the next couple of months ❤️