06/19/2025
I used to think s*x meant love.
That if I gave my body, I’d finally feel wanted… connected… chosen.
But what I really craved was something I didn’t know how to name:
Safety. Stillness. Self-worth.
S*x became a survival strategy —
A way to feel powerful in a life where I constantly felt powerless.
A way to get intimacy when I didn’t know how to receive love.
But it was never intimacy.
It was emotional dysregulation playing dress-up as desire.
I wasn’t choosing myself — I was abandoning myself.
And it left me numb, overextended, and quietly ashamed.
It wasn’t until I walked myself through my own WOMBB Process that I began to see the truth:
Pleasure is not performance — it’s presence.
Or**sm is not a reward — it’s a return to self.
S*x is not where you prove your worth — it’s where you can meet your Divine.
Through holistic transformation — nervous system healing, self-forgiveness, and sacred embodiment —
I began to love myself in the places I used to abandon.
I learned that even solo pleasure could be a spiritual act of sovereignty —
and that or**sm could be used to manifest a life I no longer had to escape from.
This is the kind of reclamation we walk through inside the Sanctuary Sessions.
Not just survival.
Not just surface self-care.
But true, spiritual self-reclamation.
If you’re ready to shift from disconnected to divine,
DM me “Sanctuary” or click the link in bio to join us.
Because pleasure isn’t sin, it isn’t selfish.
It’s sacred.
And it’s time.
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Have you ever struggled with thinking s*x and love are the same?
