
07/22/2025
Being kind means being honest. Even if that honesty stings.
Therapists often tiptoe around hard truths, hoping clients will recognize a need to change on their own. But what if they don’t? What if the most ethical thing we can do is say, “You’re part of the problem,” and walk with them from there?
That question came up in a recent supervision session, and I've been sitting with it ever since.
Here’s where I landed:
Why Honesty (Even the Brutal Kind) Belongs in the Therapy Room