05/27/2026
Please donโt ask me about the traffic this afternoon. I want to know about your emotional intelligence.
โIf you are a high-achiever who also hates superficial banter, it could be because your system is naturally craving real, authentic connection instead of some superficial social performance. It can feel so fake to talk about the weather ... when your body is holding onto trauma responses to something that happened to you when you were 17. And if that's you, I'm with you.
I have the privilege of sitting with some of the most intense things humans can experience. Itโs so hard for me to switch that off and then talk to the woman in front of me in line at the grocery store about the weather. ๐ซ Anyone else?? Therapist or otherwise?
โDisclaimer: Note: Not medical advice or therapy. Meant for info/entertainment only. Always consult a physician first to rule out medical causes for physical symptoms before assuming a psychological or somatic origin.