
08/09/2025
When I got married I married the highest version of myself before I married my partner.
This started with loving myself fully, unapologetically and fearlessly.
Itās loving the parts that were once rejected by others and myself.
Itās learning to have compassion and kindness towards broken, unloved and dejected aspects of self.
Itās opening up my heart to part of myself that I closed off.
Like the parts that I once learned as I child to judge, shame, and punish for saying no, for wanting to explore, for standing for myself, for enjoying pleasure too much, for thinking differently, for being different, for speaking my truth, for not sharing majorities opinions, for seeing and feeling different, for wanting more, for not wanting to settle for lessā¦
Those are the parts that we need to embrace and marry before we marry anyone else. Because those parts that were once suppressed is our power, our strength and our foundation!
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