Team Hayden

Team Hayden Team Hayden is an inclusive community of family, friends, doctors, nurses, therapists, and advocates. His apgar scores were perfect. Drs. WE NEVER LEFT.

Hayden Brooks Chadwell was born on April 28, 2011 at 35 weeks gestation via emergency c-section, after a typical pregnancy, in Jacksonville, FL. He weighed only 4lbs, had the umbilical cord wrapped around his neck twice, and had trouble breathing through his nose. After a 5-day stay, he moved to a children's hospital (he required surgery for a rare condition called choanal atresia- basically the

membrane in the nose didn't open). After the transfer, Hayden had a cat-scan that showed a blood spot on the brain. were not concerned at the time and said it would absolve. Hayden displayed extreme irritability and arching and was given morphine and ativan to help with the pain. proceeded a week later with surgery for the choanal atresia, again, he was in pain, irritable, and arching. A week later, after we were given clearance to go home, Hayden went into complete metabolic acidosis and was seizing. He suffered a massive brain injury- a stroke. The blood spot in the brain didn’t absolve. It was really a clot that exploded and turned into a stroke and affected both sides of the brain to the highest degree. It is called bilateral grade IV brain bleed with interventricular hemorrhage and periventricular leukomalacia (damage to white matter/cysts in the brain). His brain looked like swiss cheese. There were no explanations of how, why, what next….other than pray. We spent 82-days in the NICU. Doctors said ALL the things Hayden wouldn’t do, specifically: live, see, eat, feel, hear, sit, crawl, stand, think, have a long life, etc. Hayden is a patient of Community Hospice of Northeast Florida/PedsCare, a palliative care program for children with life-limiting serious illness/medical fragility. He receives occupational, physical, speech, feeding, vision, assistive technology, hippo, aqua, massage and music therapy. Healing services are provided by The Jacksonville Jewish Center where Hayden is often on the misheberach. His service providers from birth to today include (or have included): Agency for Persons with Disabilities (APD), Medicaid, St. Johns County School District/Cunningham Creek Elementary, Occuplay, Inc., Intentional Play, Massage by Catherine Gore, Brooks Rehab, Wolfson’s Children’s Rehab, NuMotion, Fletcher’s Medical Supplies, 180 Medical, the Horse Sense and Sensitivity, Physio Power, Sensational Kids, ELKS, Florida School for the Deaf and Blind, Division of Blind Services, Josie Davenport ~ Anat Baniel Method Therapy, Wellspring Health Center, Early Steps/Early Intervention, Majestic Oaks Kids Connection, The ARC of Jacksonville, Children Medical Services, Epilepsy Foundation of Florida, New Heights of NEFL, Dr. Alan Nathans Family Chiropractic Center, 210 Family Chiropractic, and Relaxation Sensation. Hayden is a regular patient of Bower Lyman Center for the Medically Complex, Pediatric Eye Consultants of NEFL, Nemours Children's Specialty Care, University of Florida Gainesville/Jacksonville Pediatrics, and Wolfson Children’s Hospital; ans sees specialists in neurology, speech/language, gastroenterology, general surgery, otolaryngology, geneticis, physiatry, orthopedics, and neurosurgery. His diagnosis is: choanal atresia, stroke/thrombosis, seizure disorder/infantile spasms, reflux, cortical vision impairment, optic nerve atrophy, chronic incontinence, gastroparesis, restrictive lung disease, gj-tube fed, and severe global developmental delay with spastic quadriplegia cerebral palsy. Hayden is aware of his family, especially his 12 year old brother, Evan and his furry babies. He is responsive with smiles, sometimes coos and he loves singing to music, going to the pool/beach, feeling the wind on his face, and being around friends and family. Our miracle dude is a fighter! We know he can hear! He is tracking some with his eyes and shows shift of gaze on his Tobii eye gaze system! He won’t give up and neither will we!! We still feel new to this journey, unsure, fragile, raw, scared and really weak to ask for anything. We are typically the givers. Any support is appreciated. http://teamhaydenjax.wordpress.com/donate/

The Team Hayden page is not only to show the amazing little seeds of joys and triumphs Hayden makes, but it is to help educate and advocate for other families in a similar situation. It takes a village. xoxox Team Hayden

How awesome is this!?! Please pass this forward!
08/15/2025

How awesome is this!?! Please pass this forward!

08/15/2025

Join us for The Caregiver Journey Workshop on August 16 at WJCT Studios. This free, day-long conference offers expert advice, resources, and support to help caregivers navigate legal, financial, and healthcare challenges. Registration is required and seating is limited. https://buff.ly/PZIigyV

I am sure this resonantes with many!!Every day I push through physical pain from old sports injuries ⚾️, 14.5 yrs of hol...
08/10/2025

I am sure this resonantes with many!!

Every day I push through physical pain from old sports injuries ⚾️, 14.5 yrs of holding Hayden for hours before bed (non-negotiable), and lifting/transitioning 62 lbs of pure love and lead weight. Herniated discs, degenerative disc disease, mobility issues—yeah, they’re part of the package. Standing too long? Sitting too long? Sleeping without supports? Nope.

But I live by Mind Over Matter (tattoo and all). So I walk. I move. I modify. I test my limits—not for vanity, but to feel alive. So I can keep up. So I can walk for Hayden. So I can experience life's adventures. Please, join me!

ps- thankful for our team and Evan!!!!






Here’s to miracles in motion and bright chapters ahead! 🌟 Cheers to the Class of 2027 (Evan) and the Class of 2029 (Hayd...
08/09/2025

Here’s to miracles in motion and bright chapters ahead! 🌟 Cheers to the Class of 2027 (Evan) and the Class of 2029 (Hayden)!!! For the first time in years, the boys are in the same school again—together at Creekside High School. This year, they’ll both be part of the Best Buddies organization, building friendships and championing inclusion. My heart is full knowing they’ll share this journey. Here’s to a year of growth, connection, and endless possibility! 💙📚✨ &Junior

This.
07/27/2025

This.

When you’re raising a disabled child, you lose friendships. They don’t usually end with a fight or some big falling out—they just fade.

Birthday parties get harder to make.
Campouts become memories.
Girls’ nights feel more like reminders of how different your world has become.

And you start declining invitations—not because anyone did anything wrong, but because you changed.

You used to be able to drop everything to do anything.
Now? You can’t drop anything.

Your time isn’t your own anymore. Your energy is already spent before the day even begins. So, you change—because you have to.

And the truth is, most people don’t know how to show up in a life like this.

So they drift.
And you let them.

Not out of anger on either end.
Not because either of you stopped caring.
But because keeping up takes an energy you just don’t have anymore.

And that? That’s a special kind of grief no one talks about.

The grief you feel as you scroll through pictures of events you weren’t invited to—not because they didn’t want you there, but because they assumed you’d say no.

You watch friendships that used to feel easy become strained, awkward, filled with long pauses and “we should get together soon” texts that never happen.

And it hurts.

Because for all the love you have for this life, it’s lonely.

It’s isolating.

And sometimes, late at night when the house is finally quiet, you can’t help but think about the life where friendship was simple, spontaneous, and easy and you wonder if anyone notices you’re gone.

No one prepares you for that kind of loneliness. No one tells you how heavy it will feel to love this life fiercely yet still ache for the one you left behind.

But here’s what no one tells you either:

A few will stay.
And sometimes, someone new will step right into your chaos—and choose not to leave.

And those people?
They’re everything.

(Next up: The Friends Who Stay)

07/23/2025
We’re now a family of FIVE! 🐾💛 Meet Rue (aka Rumi) our newest rescue mama—just about a year old and full of love. Can yo...
07/13/2025

We’re now a family of FIVE! 🐾💛 Meet Rue (aka Rumi) our newest rescue mama—just about a year old and full of love. Can you guess where her names come from? 😉

She was found with her babies in a real newborn hospital drop box (heartbreaking, right?). We thought we’d adopt one of her kittens, but mama chose us—and we’re so glad she did. 💖

This is our second rescue with Kitty Chicks Rescue and we’re forever grateful. Evan signed the adoption papers, Beau’s already protective, and the girl cats are working out their new hierarchy through the shower glass. 😹

Rue is cuddly, sweet, and ready for her forever home—and she’s got it. 💕

Miracle Dude, Hayden 💛It’s been a big week for our sweet Hayden. He’s meeting every challenge with quiet strength and de...
07/11/2025

Miracle Dude, Hayden 💛

It’s been a big week for our sweet Hayden. He’s meeting every challenge with quiet strength and deep courage. We’re held up by an incredible village of healers and helpers. Every day with him is a gift we don’t take for granted.

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Hmmm….Sunday just went downhill. Miracle dude needs an emergency GJ replacement  #55/procedure  #80.  Sometimes it is ju...
06/29/2025

Hmmm….Sunday just went downhill. Miracle dude needs an emergency GJ replacement #55/procedure #80. Sometimes it is just hard to be happy and live in the moment when s**t like this happens over and over again. My boy is a champion.

From our lovely water therapist! Pass it forward!
06/29/2025

From our lovely water therapist! Pass it forward!

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