Seven After Seven

12/07/2023

Do you have a quote that you really love? One that you can use to your relationship weather it is related to your romantic life or any relationship?

Mine is “Sensual pleasures have the fleeting brilliance of a comet; a happy marriage has the tranquility of a lovely sunset.” —Ann Landers
Please feel free to share yours!!

12/06/2023

Today thought - I was stumbling around trying to figure out my morning while in brain fog. It was hard. I accidently tripped over hubby shoes.

While I was about to cuss him out for this I remember that if he was to pass tomorrow then I would miss that. So I made myself think of the the things I absolutely love about this relationship and our life. I started to make a list of things that I loved and suddenly the shoes did not matter as much.

So I challenge you to figure out what you love the about the life and marriage. What is your love and greatest love of the marriage with your partner.
You can also apply this for the any relationship you have in life.

12/03/2023

Let's be honest. Being in a relationship is not an easy task. You have a lot of learning and growing to do in order to remain a healthy couple and also to remain yourself in that relationship.

So as you ge older and move together in your relationship you have to ask what have you done to keep your relationship with your partner and yourself healthy?

One of the things you can take a serious look at is your actions. Ask yourself and be honest with the following questions:

"How has my relationship changed lately? How have I grown closer or more distant?"

11/22/2023

Sometimes when you are in a relationship all that we focus on is WHAT we need to change to make thus better. Not to change as a person but what actions to change or maybe how we communicate better etc. So here is a challenging question for you:

"What are the best traits I bring to my important relationship?

Go beyond the typical - honestly, funny, loyal, etc. dig deeper and I look forward to hearing from you about your best trait.
PS. Mine is I am REALLY funny and feminine. I heard this from my husband. Plus I am a great cook..

04/07/2023

Saying I love you is in many many different ways. It’s checking on someone. Call me when you’re home.. are you ok? Do you need anything? What can I do? It’s also other things that may be quiet declarations

14 Ways to Say I LOVE YOU (Without Saying It)There are many ways to know if that person really loves you, even if they don't tell you, their behavior with yo...

04/01/2023

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Das ist das Beste, was ich je gegessen habe! Dessert in 5 Minuten, kein Ofen, keine Kondensmilch!Neues Dessert in 5 Minuten. Kein Mehl, kein Backofen, kein F...

04/01/2023

We as women tend to think if we are being treated poorly or more that
“if we are more patient.. it’ll be better “
“If I care more it’ll be ok”
“If I do MORE for him .. he’ll love me again”
And oh and on and on.. when the truth is, we cannot get some to love us, fall back in love or be nicer when they don’t even appreciate us or things we’ve don’t in the past.
We need to love ourselves better, harder & first before we can get the person we deserve

03/21/2023

We all got cell phones but when was the last time you used it to be s*xy with your spouse? (Not trashy but s*xy). When my husband is at work I’ll find s*xy memes online & text it to him or funny love puns to make him smile. Every day he’ll come home & kiss me then thanks me for the texts. He’ll say it made his day or made him laugh. Some hell even share. Remember your phone can help your relationship.

03/21/2023

Telling your partner when you’re insecure and how it shows up in the relationship creates emotional intimacy. If you’re used to being indirect or passive aggressive, it’ll be scary at first. Give your partner a chance to know the (true) you.

03/21/2023

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Men, you can never speak too often or too lovingly about your bride.

Doing so honors her and removes any question of your devotion.

Make it obvious that you love your bride wholeheartedly!

03/21/2023

03/18/2023

Intimacy isn't just about s*x. It's truly connecting...having heart-to-hearts, going on dates, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact & feeling each other without touching-it's exchanging energy.

Intimacy is also the ability for partners to talk to each other deeply , without fear, to talk their hearts out without fear of being judged, mocked or ridiculed. Intimacy builds deeper relationships, and a stronger foundation. It’s also a huge stress buster ...it boosts emotional and mental health and also makes things happier.