12/14/2025
You’re not attracting the wrong men.
You’re letting a wounded part of you choose.
What feels like chemistry is often just familiarity — your nervous system chasing what it already knows.
That’s how anxiety gets mistaken for passion,
inconsistency for excitement,
and emotional unavailability for depth.
This isn’t a dating problem.
It’s an unfinished heartbreak pattern.
When your adult self starts choosing, everything changes.
Comment 63 if you’re ready to stop choosing from wounds and start choosing from self-trust.
