08/15/2025
This right here. I’ve lived in my professional life with my clients broken hearts and with my daughter in my personal life. The girls she saw as “sisters” for absolutely NO reason excluded her and the words said cannot be taken back. Lack of accountability by parents, schoools, instructors lets this behavior continue.
Mamas/parents DO BETTER…..It has to STOP.
I only model kind words both in my home, in public and within my professional settings. Lift people up or just don’t say anything.
Let’s be honest
Mean girls don’t just appear out of nowhere.
They’re raised in homes where whispers behind backs are normal.
Where judgment is casual and kindness is conditional.
Where exclusion is taught, not corrected.
Because little girls are watching.
They see how their mom treats other women.
They hear the snide remarks in the car after practice.
They notice when you don’t invite that one mom, again.
They pick up on the eye rolls, the silence, the fake smiles.
And they learn.
They learn who’s “in” and who’s “out.”
They learn how to weaponize friendship.
They learn how to make others feel small
Because they watched the woman they look up to do it first.
You want to raise a kind girl?
Show her what kindness looks like.
Speak well of other women behind their backs.
Wave to the mom standing alone.
Invite the quiet one to sit with you.
Model empathy.
Model grace.
Model inclusion.
Because your daughter doesn’t just need a role model.
She needs to see a woman who uses her strength to build other women up
Not break them down.
Mean moms usually create mean girls.
But kind moms?
They raise world changers.
