01/11/2023
So very cliche this time of year, but I need reminders too that it is always good to hit pause, rest, reflect, and renew or reinvent your direction. This holiday season has left me with less time than in the past with a pipe freezing and my ceiling falling in on Christmas and the stress, excitement, drudgery of cleaning the mess, and the shuffling of schedules to accommodate adjusters, plumbers, contractors, and electricians.
Ya, my hands were full!!
Being able to now take time and reaffirm where I am going and why I am here writing this is helpful. I chose coaching because I wanted to help others in the way that I would have valued through some of my tougher times. It is also a way to support my own goals of continued education and investing in myself. With each new client I learn more about life and how interconnected we all are on this wonderful journey!
So, what am I reaffirming, exactly? That, yes, each day, week, month, even hour is a chance to start over and make a new beginning, but that there are times that, although cliche, weigh heavier on us. Whether that weight be from pressure of things undone, or pressure of things to redirect to, the pressure is there this time of year.
So, even after 3 years of coaching, I am still working on my new beginnings and my renewal of direction. One of the reasons that I have a deep desire to help others that may not feel supported in with their health, weight, stress, or the degree of complication that is embedded in their lives, is because these are things that I still work on and at times struggle with.
Well, although my life isn’t perfect and I don’t always know what direction I am supposed to go, I also have faith that with movement comes change. I know that as I find ways to move that make me happy (martial arts, yoga) and as I take time to hit pause and meditate, learn, and grow, that the steps that I am taking daily, no matter how small, are moving me in a positive direction, even if I temporarily get derailed.
When I finally got that chance to hit pause after the holidays and to think about how and where I am going, I also was able to realize that this too is in flux and will change and that the best resolution that I can have is to be kind to myself daily. Kind when I make it happen, and kind when I have struggled and not achieved. The best part is that I am engaged and cutting my own path and I will one day be at the top of the mountain looking down and appreciating that my efforts, whether they came easy or were struggled for, are why I am able to be there in the first place.
👉 What do you say about your struggles, are they limiting or engaging and encouraging you to move in new directions? Comment below!