06/17/2025
This is an excerpt from Kenny's service from Pastor Lindsay Mizell.
In the last few years, Kenny experienced a really sweet waking up and deepening of his faith. The man who loved science and space and all things Neil DeGrasse Tyson found the incomparable power of Christ within him. And when he received his diagnosis, he absolutely found hope in science–through treatment and the wide and wild brain of Dr. Shrock and Radiologists and Respiratory therapists. But what truly empowered that hope was his belief in the incomparable power of Christ within him. Many of you, like me, visited Kenny in the hospital in the last few months.
BTW-If you’ve ever wondered how an extrovert survives in the hospital, please consult the one billion pictures on the Kennystrong page. It looked like a nightmare if you’re an introvert but for Kenny it was more and more grace, more and more people, more and more praise! Several of us had a similar experience where when we walked in the door we did what southern people do and we just started chatting and catching up. Kenny would look over and say “Well are you going to pray?!?!” And I was like–Oh! Yes! I, actually, get paid to do that. Yes, I'll pray with you. One time Jill had to step out to take a call and he asked if I was going to pray. I said "Oh sorry I was going to wait for Jill and he said “You can pray twice!” Verse 13: We’re not keeping this quiet, not on your life. Just like the psalmist who wrote, “I believed it, so I said it,” we say what we believe. Kenny said what he believed in his desire for his hospital room to be filled with prayer and with people. He said what he believed to Camden who wanted to make sure that he and his Pa believed the same thing. We would pray and even when his mouth was covered with the big oxygen mask and he couldn’t speak, he would cry…his tears, his body saying what he believed when his mouth couldn’t. More and more grace, more and more people, more and more praise! Another experience several of us shared in the hospital toward the end of his life, is that when Jill would leave the room, he’d give us a list of things he hoped for. Make sure Jill has fun. Don’t let her spiral She can be sad, but she isn’t allowed to stay there forever. Make sure she travels... Except not to Jamaica because that was what we were supposed to do. So she can’t go to Jamaica, but she can go anywhere else. This is so meaningful to me, because in life and in death, Kenny wanted the people he loved to be ok. He wanted them to be loved and cared for and nurtured.
He wanted them not just to live–but to flourish, to laugh, to experience, to have fun. It is such an honorable way to live and an even more honorable way to die. Caring very much for the joy of the people you loved. That is a good and holy thing!
It was such a beautiful service
Day 136 of losing my love