"My husband and I had been to several counselors, and quite frankly I was beginning to think there was no one out there that could help us. Through his incredible vision for marriages, his men's groups, phone counseling, and individual step by step guidance we had a major break through. Rob helped us to see that our expectations for each other were healthy, but the way we were going about enforcin
g those on each other was really out in left field. He helped my husband with tools to be more involved in our marriage and to care for my heart more. He tought my husband to see the difference between love and respect. He walked him through a step-by-step process on how to get healing for himself and re open his heart in areas that were closed down, so he could not only love himself more but he also gave him tools and boundaries so he could show love to me and our kids more. Rob helped me with my anger/hurt in our couple's counseling and some one on one phone counseling. He helped me make some bottom line healthy boundaries for myself and our marriage. Rob helped me see that I was being overbearing and mothering. He gave me tools to be able to show respect to my husband as well as share my heart without the fear of rejection. My husband and I are in such a good place now, and communicating with each other in ways that we never had before. I'm so grateful for Rob and his fresh view of what a marriage with hard work can overcome." Barbra
"Rob is a man's man but with a heart of gold. I have been a client of Rob's for a while now. The transformation in me and the healing that has come from my sessions with him are astounding. Just the simple fact that he is not someone that is just book smart, but someone that is speaking from experience and the healing that has been done in his life with his own struggles. I do 1 on 1 counseling with Rob ,as well as a 10 week telephone men's group ,where we go through his workbook called "Overcoming barriers to intimacy". This workbook within itself and the men that I get to share with in these groups weekly has given me a safe place where I don't feel alone in this. I am a little on the introverted side. I needed a place to process things I was going through. It's nice to be involved in a group that struggles with some of the same things that I do. Avoiding, victim mentality, porn and pleasing people. Rob's counseling and groups has really opened my eyes and helped me to to feel a sense of freedom. He has helped me to really stand up and be the man I'm designed to be." Steve
