02/07/2025
Over here politically advocating for YOU, and you, and you. And you too. For the basics, really. Read the caption/post.
Let me make something clear:
Everything I do, everything I write, everything I stand for here is inherently political.
Play is inherently political. If I say āwe need to let children play freelyā then Iām also saying āparents need to be making enough money at their jobs to be able to come home and hang out with their kids for unstructured hours in the evening so the kids arenāt being shuffled from care service to care service.ā Iām also saying, āteachers need to be paid enough and trusted enough to be capable of breathing without over-standardizing everything the children do.ā Iām also saying āwe need to listen to scientific evidence telling us how important play isā and that means Iām also saying āwe need funds for the sciencesā and that means Iām also saying āevidence is knowable and a thing worth leaning onā; and Iām *also* saying āwe need to pay attention to the people who are being left out of the studies and see how we can bring in their lived experienceā and that means that Iām saying āBlack and brown people and women and q***r people and, ironically, disabled people and also inconvenient people of all kinds sometimes get left out of the literature and we need to find ways to bridge that gapā and that means that Iām yet again saying āfund the sciencesā.
If Iām saying ālet children play freelyā then Iām saying ālet neurodivergent children play the āwrongā way, too,ā because Iām saying āthereās not a wrong way to playā; and that implies that Iām saying āwe need safe spaces for neurodivergent children to be allowed to be neurodivergent childrenā and that means āwe also need to allow neurodivergent people to be neurodivergent peopleā and that means an entire cascade of things about our current society and political system, the absolute bare minimum of which is that people deserve human rights and that those should be protected.
Sensory processing is inherently political. When I say āhere is how to listen to your body and perhaps hear what it is telling you and nobody can tell you that you are wrong,ā I am also saying, āyou have to respect somebody elseās report of what their body told them they needed.ā I am also saying āsomebody else may need a different thing out of a public space than you.ā I am also saying āour collective taxes fund the things we all need.ā When I say āsome people are sensory-seekingā then Iām also saying āchildren need spaces to get loud, move their bodies, and touch and explore things in publicā and that means āeverywhere canāt be an absolutely completely sanitized space where noise, movement, or touch are policedā.
Respecting children is inherently political. When I say āchildren deserve respect as full human beingsā then I am also saying ātrans children deserve respect as full human beings and it is wrong to police the lived experience of human beings,ā and I am also saying āPalestinian children deserve respect as full human beings and it is wrong to murder human beings,ā and I am also saying āAutistic children deserve respect as full human beings and it is wrong to police the bodily existence of human beings,ā and so, so much more.
Neurodiversity-affirming practice is inherently political. When I say ābeing autistic is a type of brain wiring and autistic people deserve full acceptance as they are,ā I am also saying ābeing disabled is not a barrier to being accepted as a human being.ā I am also saying, āsociety owes it to disabled people to make space for them to thrive.ā I am also saying, ādiversity, divergence, and disability are a natural part of the human condition.ā I am also saying, āaccess to healthcare ā mental healthcare included ā should be a human right.ā
Knowing about child development is inherently political. When I say āa two-year-old is not ābeing badā for feeling an emotionā then I am also saying theoretical things like āI call into question the entire system of morality that suggests that people are ābeing badā for feeling emotions, everā and also practical things like āstop kicking small children out of daycare or school for struggling.ā Iām saying āa child is not an adult and canāt be responsible for adult crimes.ā Iām saying āwe need community services that are trained in child development and there to support parents.ā
Learning to self-regulate is inherently political. When I say āhumans are inherently social creatures who co-regulate as a primary tool to learn how to cope with overwhelming emotionā Iām also saying āthis includes men.ā Iām also saying āpeople need support from one another that isnāt exclusively romantic support and love.ā Iām once again saying āwe need comprehensive mental health care.ā When I say ākids do well when they canā Iām also saying āadults do well when they can.ā Iām saying āeveryone wants the same basic things, just some of us have skills to get those in ways that work better than others.ā I am also saying āpunitive justice systems donāt do anything to restore whatās been lost or help solve the underlying cause, they just satiate a desire for vengeance.ā
And no matter what the heck I write on this page, any words I ever write at all, Iām saying, āI donāt believe these thoughts should only be accessible to you if you have US health insurance.ā Iām saying, āI want to try to make your life easier in some way by sharing this thing I know with you.ā Iām saying, āYou donāt only deserve this if you pay for it.ā
In this society, you are worth what money someone can make off of you. Off of your contact information, off of your body, of even where your eyes rest. I am saying, "This has nothing to do with money. This is love."
Iām saying, āTake care of yourself.ā Iām saying, āTake care of your child.ā Iām saying, āI want to take care of you as best as I can.ā Iām saying, āWe all have to take care of each other.ā
Thatās a political statement. Itās always been a political statement. This page has always been political and will always be. My writing has always been political and will always be.
We all have to take care of each other.
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