Mission 5 Fold

01/02/2026

Speak life today.

01/02/2026

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Learn to Recognize the Spirit Behind the Man

Not every man who speaks well, prays loudly, or pursues you passionately is sent by God. Not every man who shows interest is assigned to your destiny. Some men are sent to cover, build, and walk with you in purpose. Others are permitted to reveal what you still need to discern. Women of God, discernment is not optional. It is protection.

Before you date him. Before you trust him. Before you give your heart, your body, or your future to him, discern the spirit behind the man.

A Boaz carries responsibility, consistency, and honor. He understands timing. He covers before he claims. He does not rush intimacy while avoiding commitment. His presence brings security, not confusion. He adds structure to your life and respects the God in you. He does not compete with your calling. He makes room for it.

A Samson may be anointed and gifted, yet undisciplined. He carries power but lacks restraint. He is emotionally driven, pleasure-led, and careless with sacred things. Being with him feels exciting, but it is exhausting. His strength impresses you, but his appetite eventually endangers you. Anointing without character will always end in loss.

A Joseph walks in integrity even when no one is watching. He fears God more than he desires pleasure. He would rather lose opportunities than lose purity. His consistency attracts favor, and his obedience positions him for promotion. He does not manipulate. He does not pressure. He honors boundaries because he honors God.

A Saul looks good on the outside but is insecure on the inside. He is threatened by your growth. He needs control to feel significant. He starts well but becomes dangerous when his ego is challenged. He may tolerate your calling until it exposes his insecurity. His jealousy eventually turns into hostility.

A David is humble, repentant, and teachable. He is not perfect, but he is correctable. When confronted, he responds with brokenness, not pride. He grows through conviction. His heart remains soft before God, even when his mistakes are exposed. He takes responsibility and allows God to shape him.

A Judas stays close but carries betrayal in his heart. He speaks the language of loyalty while secretly negotiating self-interest. He appears committed until sacrifice is required. He walks with you, eats with you, and still sells what is sacred for personal gain. Not everyone close to you is for you.

Women of God, discernment is your shield. This is not about suspicion or fear. It is about wisdom. Godly relationships bring peace, clarity, and spiritual alignment. Ungodly ones bring anxiety, compromise, and confusion. What drains your peace is already costing you something.

Look beyond charm, gifts, and spiritual vocabulary. Watch patterns. Observe fruit. Study how he handles correction, temptation, pressure, and delay. Pay attention to how he treats authority, women, and responsibility. Character always speaks louder than confession.

Your destiny is sacred. Your future deserves protection. Align yourself with a man whose life points you toward God, not away from Him. A man sent by God will never rush you into compromise or pressure you to silence conviction. He will protect your purity, respect your boundaries, and honor your calling.

The Kingdom operates by discernment and obedience. Wise women see beyond words. Discerning women choose alignment over attraction. And the man God sends will not drain your destiny. He will steward it.

Guard your heart. Train your eyes. Choose wisely.✨🫰🏼🩷

...✝️🌱💚🦋✨🪔
𝐉𝐚𝐲 𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐎𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 🐾💎

01/01/2026

SOARing through his word day 1 of 365.

First post of 2026, it's a year of declaration. Today we declare Jesus is Lord over our lives, and we take our mind, emotions, and flesh captive. Our spirit man will shine bright before it is said and done.
-Amen?
AMEN!

Reading from the NLTJournaling daily is encouraged.Today's reading-Genesis 1:1-2:25Matthew 1:1-2:12Psalm 1:1-6Proverbs 1:1-6S-cripture: Chose a passage in t...

12/30/2025

Does anyone else feel like they could start a whole ministry out of their car? Asking for a friend . Hi , it's me im the friend. SMH

12/29/2025

Yes: Being like Chirst means being gental and forgiving.

However; Jesus had boundaries.

✨️When Nazareth tried to kill him, he NEVER returned.
✨️He told Peter when he had crossed a line.
✨️He called out leaders for hypocrisy.
✨️He refused to speak to Herod.

Clear boundaries are also Christ like. 👌
So be like Christ and set some flipping boundaries friend; and when someone refuses to respect them walk away.

12/29/2025

✨️The Single Mom's Peace✨️

​I got used to
the quiet chaos of us. I got used to
the bed being a sanctuary for me,
or sometimes a playground for them,
without feeling like I’m in the way.

I got used to
making the rules,
setting the tone,
and being the one they look to
for strength, laughter, and love.

​I got used to
not asking permission
to raise them my way,
to choose our battles,
and to celebrate our tiny victories.

I got used to
the exhaustion of doing it all,
met by the overwhelming power
of knowing I can do it all.

​I got used to
realizing that being "alone"
doesn't mean I’m lonely—
it means I am the heartbeat of this home,
and we are thriving in the peace
I created for us.

​And it's simply wonderful... 🌹

12/28/2025

Happy Sunday Brother /Sister!! Not feeling it? Are you running on empty today? Here is an encouraging word.

Strength for the "Empty Tank"

​It is common to feel "poured out" by Sunday morning. If you feel like you're running on fumes, remember that ministry isn't about your capacity, but His.

-​Exchange your Strength: Isaiah 40:31 reminds us that those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength. It’s an exchange—you give Him your weariness, and He gives you His "eagle's wings."

-​Feeble Efforts, Mighty Results: God often uses our "weakest" Sundays to do His deepest work because that's when we stay out of His way.

Plant as many seeds as you can today and Be blessed.

12/28/2025

Repeat after me:
I am fearfully and wonderfully made for a purpose. I honor God with my body through fitness and with my mind through focus. My strength doesn't come from my own will, but from the One who fuels my soul.
-Amen

12/27/2025

Choosing to prioritize your relationship with God and practicing healthy self-love aren't just "feel-good" habits—they are the foundation for a stable, purposeful life. -

-Many people find that these two things are deeply interconnected: you learn how to love yourself truly by seeing yourself through God's eyes.

🕊​Here is why these two practices are so vital for your well-being🕊

​1. You Cannot Pour From an Empty Cup
​The most common reason for "loving yourself first" is practical: you cannot give what you do not have.

-​The Commandment: Jesus said to "love your neighbor as yourself" (Mark 12:31). This implies that a healthy love for yourself is the "measuring stick" for how you treat others.

-​Refilling Your Tank: If you are constantly depleted, stressed, or filled with self-criticism, that is what you will eventually project onto your friends, family, and work.

​2. Spending Time with God Provides Your Identity; ​The world often defines our worth based on our productivity, appearance, or status. Spending time with God acts as a "reset" for your identity.

-​Seeing the "Designer’s" View: In solitude with God, you are reminded that you are "fearfully and wonderfully made" (Psalm 139:14).

-​Breaking the Cycle of Comparison: When you focus on God's opinion of you, the loud, critical voices of social media or society begin to fade. You realize your worth is inherent, not earned.

​3. It Creates Inner Peace in a Chaotic World
​Spending time in prayer or meditation isn't just a religious duty; it’s a mental health necessity.

-​Emotional Regulation: It allows you to process your fears, anxieties, and anger in a safe space.

-​Clarity and Wisdom: Stepping away from the noise of the world to be with God helps you gain perspective on your problems. You often find solutions in the "quiet" that you couldn't see while rushing around.

​4. Love vs. Self-Indulgence
​It is important to distinguish between self-love and selfishness.
✨️​Self-Love is about stewardship. It's caring for the "temple" (your body and mind) that God gave you so you can fulfill your purpose.
✨️​Self-Indulgence is about ignoring others to please yourself.

-​The Balance: When you spend time with God, He helps you refine your self-love so it becomes a source of strength rather than a source of pride.

-A simple starting point: Try dedicated "quiet time" for just 10 minutes tomorrow morning. No phone, no music—just you, a journal, or a prayer, acknowledging that you are loved exactly as you are.

12/25/2025

Alone this Christmas?

Spending Christmas alone can be an incredibly restorative and even a joyful experience if you lean into the freedom it provides. Without the pressure of social obligations, you have the rare opportunity to curate a day that is 100% about your own comfort and interests.

​Here are some great ways to structure a meaningful solo Christmas:

​1. Curate Your "Perfect" Atmosphere
​When you’re alone, you don't have to compromise on the environment.

-​The "No-Phone" Zone: Consider a "digital fast." Turning off social media prevents the "comparison trap" of seeing others' highlight reels and allows you to be fully present in your own space.

-​The Sensory Experience:
Light that expensive candle you’ve been saving, put on a 10-hour "Cozy Fireplace" video on YouTube, and wear your softest pajamas all day.

-​The Soundscape: If holiday music makes you lonely, skip it. Create a "Main Character" playlist of songs that make you feel confident and peaceful.

​2. Design a Solo Feast
​Forget the stress of a giant turkey. Focus on what you actually like to eat.
​The "Indulgence"

Menu: Make (or order ahead) a meal that feels like a treat—whether that’s a high-end steak, a massive sushi platter, or a breakfast-for-dinner spread of fancy pancakes.

-​The All-Day Snack Board: Many solo travelers and homebodies swear by the "Christmas Charcuterie"—a board of cheeses, fruits, and chocolates you can graze on while watching movies.

​3. Create a "New Tradition" for One
​Structure helps the day feel significant rather than just "another day off."

-​The Morning Walk: Go for a walk while the streets are quiet. There is a unique, serene beauty in the world when most people are indoors.

-​The "Inner Child" Gift: Buy yourself one thing you’ve wanted for a long time, wrap it, and open it in the morning.

-​The Future Letter: Spend an hour writing a letter to yourself for next Christmas. Reflect on what you’ve learned this year and what you hope for the next.

​4. Low-Stakes Connection
​If you find yourself craving a bit of human energy without the commitment of a party.

-​Movie Marathons: Watch a series (like Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, or a classic sitcom) where the characters feel like "old friends."

-​Community Volunteering: If you have the energy, soup kitchens and animal shelters often need an extra pair of hands on Christmas morning. It’s a powerful way to practice that "consideration" we discussed in the previous post.

-​Scheduled Video Calls: Set a specific 30-minute window to call someone you love so you have a social "anchor" in your day without it taking over.

​A Quick "Solo Survival" Tip:
​If a wave of loneliness hits, remember that feelings are like the weather—they pass. It’s okay to feel a little sad; it doesn't mean your day is a failure. Lean into the "consideration" mindset: “I feel a bit lonely right now, so I’m going to make myself a hot cup of tea and put on my favorite show.

12/25/2025

Why is Consideration seen as the "Highest" form of love? ​Consideration isn't just "being polite." It is a deep, active state of awareness.

​It is Love in Action:
While feelings are internal, consideration is external. It’s the "invisible work" of a relationship—adjusting the temperature because you know they’re cold, or choosing your words carefully during a fight because you care about their peace of mind.

​The Death of Ego:
To be truly considerate, you have to step outside your own immediate desires and "consider" the reality of another. Many philosophers argue that this transcendence of the "self" is the pinnacle of love.

​Consistency over Intensity:
Grand gestures are easy; daily consideration is difficult. It proves that the person is "on your mind" consistently, which many argue is more valuable than a fleeting moment of intense passion.

Consider loving yourself first. 💖