
09/04/2025
At Anam Cara, we’re here for every part of the journey—including the end. In this TEDx talk, ICU doctor Peter Saul reminds us that most people don’t die suddenly—they die in hospitals, often without ever having shared their wishes.
✨ His message is simple but urgent:
Have the conversation. While you still can.
Ask: Who will speak for me if I can’t? Do they know what matters to me?
Talking about dying won’t bring it closer. But avoiding it might rob us—and our loved ones—of the chance for a peaceful, meaningful goodbye.
🎥 TEDxNewy | Peter Saul: Let’s Talk About Dying
We can't control if we'll die, but we can "occupy death," in the words of Peter Saul, an emergency doctor. He asks us to think about the end of our lives -- and to question the modern model of slow, intubated death in hospital. Two big questions can help you start this tough conversation.