
07/21/2025
We can forgive AND have boundaries. Part of forgiveness IS having boundaries and having effective boundaries actually makes it more possible for forgiveness to happen. Forgiveness is one of the most loving things we can do for ourselves and others - when we are ready. Forgiveness is NOT staying in an abusive relationship. Forgiveness actually is protective, strong and honors our own self.
Sometimes we can think that by not forgiving someone we’re preventing the hurt from happening again. We can’t confuse forgiveness with permissiveness. It’s not saying “this horrific thing that happened is actually okay.” It’s a continued choice to seek personal freedom.
Time does not heal all wounds - it’s an active, intentional process that creates space for our own and others’ humanness.