01/16/2026
Just be very careful right now. Pay attention to where you actually need to heal, and where you keep making excuses instead. Some of those habits once kept you safe, but at this point they are keeping you small.
Standing up for yourself, and sometimes for others, while facing your fear is the next phase for many who have been working through wounds of being misused, overlooked, or dismissed.
Nobody has to hand you a crown. It is already there.
This is something I will keep repeating when it comes to self love. Courage comes with it. Confidence is part of the package. Inner strength is part of the package. Saying no to users and empty answers is part of the package. You do not have to prove anything to people who do not even know you.
If someone wants to waste their life force monitoring you, your outfit, your post of the day, your movement, your silence, honestly let them set the alarm. According to the level of obsession some people reach, the sun and the moon might as well revolve around you.
Peaceful interaction is beautiful, but survival mode has evolved into discernment mode. And those who are called to speak on that shift are being asked to answer now.
You cannot care about the opinions that come with that calling.
Yes, you will trigger some people. You might already know who they are. You may have already discerned the incoming revelations. And if you have not, just remember this. You are who you are. Their trigger is a reflection of where they are, not who you are.
Do not miss that.
