This is so funny but there are things, as therapists, we can take from it.
If someone is looking to their therapist to ‘fix’ them, talking about this need and what that means relationally, realistically and unpicking what is really getting in the way of feeling and getting better and what feels broken.
And not like this example! 😅😃
New Discovery Shows Your Brain Can Treat Imagination Like Reality
Scientists at University College London made a fascinating discovery: when you imagine something vividly, your brain doesn’t really distinguish it from seeing it in real life. The region responsible for detecting “reality” only measures signal intensity. Strong signals feel real, creating the same neural pathways as actual experiences.
This means that your subconscious records your imagination as proof that the experience exists. But there’s a catch: your brain responds to how you feel, not just what you visualize. Imagining wealth while feeling lack, or love while feeling lonely, creates conflicting signals in your nervous system.
The solution? Mental techniques like Neville Goddard’s concept of “assuming the wish fulfilled.” Instead of imagining getting what you want, feel as if you already have it. When your brain experiences the emotion of your desire as real, it begins to rewire neural networks to recognize and respond to opportunities aligned with that state.
This is why emotional alignment is crucial. Feeling your goals deeply primes your brain to notice opportunities, take aligned actions, and attract outcomes consistent with your imagined reality. It’s not just daydreaming—it’s scientific rewiring of your mind.
The most awakened thinkers and visionaries throughout history understood this principle intuitively. Modern neuroscience is now confirming what they knew: feeling is the secret to creation, and the brain treats vivid imagination as a blueprint for reality.
By combining focused visualization with genuine emotional experience, you can literally reshape your brain, your perception, and ultimately, your life.
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