01/09/2026
I love these words from Clarissa Pinkola Estés. Because the man who can descend into his own wounds without shame is the man a woman can finally risk telling her deepest fears to. So many women try to open their hearts to men who haven’t yet met themselves, men who reach outward for connection without having the capacity to be present inwardly.
And here’s the truth we don’t say enough: Becoming the One isn’t something you do for a partner. It begins with you. Always. When you meet your own parts, the tender ones, the exiled ones, the shadowed ones, she become the mirror. And you become the medicine.
That’s when trust becomes real. Not trust built on hope or strategy or hiding. But trust born from two people willing to sit in their own darkness and stay.
That’s intimacy. Anything else is just performance...
If you’re ready to face yourself, gently, honestly and you want real support, I invite you to connect with me 1:1. Every glorious journey begins with a single step, and ours begins with a powerful Intimacy Breakthrough Experience.
After more than 20 years supporting singles and couples, I’ve seen this again and again: intimacy challenges come down to a few common blind spots. When those are met and integrated, vulnerability becomes safe, authenticity flows, and relationships finally have room to thrive.
If this resonates, reach out. You don’t have to walk this path alone.
