Beyond Divorce

Beyond Divorce Getting through, transforming from, and moving beyond divorce Are you hurting? Confused? Afraid? The emotions are intense, and it is easy to feel overwhelmed.

As you begin healing from the loss of your divorce or significant relationship breakup, I want to point out that there is an opportunity before you, even though it may not feel like an opportunity right now. Yet, there is more to this divorce experience than just getting through it. You are literally standing on the threshold of one of life’s most transformational events. No less transformational,

no less intense, no less beautiful that of a caterpillar changing form and becoming a brilliantly colored butterfly. It would be a shame to miss the good in this experience.

10/08/2024

After or , moving on is scary. You may feel the urge to isolate yourself, to be alone, but this will only make healing more difficult. It's important to find yourself a good support system. Connect with close friends and family, get professional help, or find a group - find support that works for you.

Going through this process is best when you listen to what your body is saying. SEEK SUPPORT. This is not a journey meant to be tackled on your own.
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The decision to separate/ divorce is a life-changing event. With that, comes a range of different emotions. You may not ...
06/28/2024

The decision to separate/ divorce is a life-changing event. With that, comes a range of different emotions. You may not feel like yourself. It often leaves you feeling uncertain about the future. If you initiated it, why, then, are you feeling sad about it? There's no clear-cut answer to this! Just know that it is completely NORMAL to feel this way.
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Focusing on self-care when going through divorce or separation can help you alleviate the stress and navigate this stres...
06/26/2024

Focusing on self-care when going through divorce or separation can help you alleviate the stress and navigate this stressful time in your life. Here are some self-care tips to help...

Please share what worked/is working for you?
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06/24/2024

What is the #1 tip you recommend to help someone going through divorce/separation?

Try to keep your kids out of the crossfires of a divorce. It can be a difficult and emotionally turbulent experience for...
06/18/2024

Try to keep your kids out of the crossfires of a divorce. It can be a difficult and emotionally turbulent experience for adults. Just imagine how much more damaging it can be for our kids who may not understand the situation or the impact it will have on their lives. They're not the ones getting divorced. They don't need further upheaval in their lives.
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The healing process you embark on after a divorce/separation, regardless of which of you initiated the divorce, will tak...
06/12/2024

The healing process you embark on after a divorce/separation, regardless of which of you initiated the divorce, will take time.

This process is completely in your hands. The road may be rocky (painful and tough), but it is a journey that needs to be made. Do not lose yourself!
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Don't lose yourself regardless of the state of your relationship. Don’t let your health, life, or your energy slip throu...
06/10/2024

Don't lose yourself regardless of the state of your relationship.
Don’t let your health, life, or your energy slip through your hands. We only get one chance at this thing called life so don't sacrifice yourself if it's just not working after trying your best for so long.
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Consider separation or divorce a lesson learned. To break any negative patterns, you first have to recognize them. Analy...
06/04/2024

Consider separation or divorce a lesson learned. To break any negative patterns, you first have to recognize them. Analyze the relationship, and acknowledge what went wrong. Were there any situations you could have handled differently?
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Sometimes it really is better to walk away.What was OR what would you consider the last straw before calling it quits?**...
06/03/2024

Sometimes it really is better to walk away.
What was OR what would you consider the last straw before calling it quits?
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How do you know if   is the 'right answer'?This may be one of the biggest and most difficult decisions you'll have to ma...
05/29/2024

How do you know if is the 'right answer'?

This may be one of the biggest and most difficult decisions you'll have to make so confusion is normal. But getting clear about where you and your partner stand is necessary to take the step in the right direction, whatever it may be.
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It's human nature to want to hold on to what we care about and  .Yes, it is tough letting go of someone you love especia...
05/01/2024

It's human nature to want to hold on to what we care about and .

Yes, it is tough letting go of someone you love especially when your feelings for them haven’t changed, however, it is an essential step for .
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Divorce is an invitation for isolation.But it doesn't need to be. Now is the time you need a strong support system. Here...
04/30/2024

Divorce is an invitation for isolation.

But it doesn't need to be. Now is the time you need a strong support system. Here are some options for you to consider:

🔹Reach out to your family
🔹Reach out to your friends
🔹Counseling
🔹Divorce support groups

You don't need to be alone.
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Yes, divorce is a difficult process to go through. Even the most civilized of break-ups can take a mental toll on the st...
01/20/2024

Yes, divorce is a difficult process to go through.
Even the most civilized of break-ups can take a mental toll on the strongest of us!

You don't want to stay stuck in a funk though. Take active steps to kickstart the healing process of healing and begin rebuilding your life.
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You shouldn't have to force someone to make space for you.You should never settle. You should never have to beg someone ...
01/19/2024

You shouldn't have to force someone to make space for you.
You should never settle. You should never have to beg someone for attention. Know your self-worth, and move on if you must.
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Never underestimate the power of a good friend or a support community- especially when you are going through it! Who are...
01/18/2024

Never underestimate the power of a good friend or a support community- especially when you are going through it! Who are friends you can reconnect with? In what other ways can you reach out for help? 💛

My hope for you in this New Year is that you are taking care of yourself! Knowing what to do is easier than actually doi...
01/17/2024

My hope for you in this New Year is that you are taking care of yourself! Knowing what to do is easier than actually doing it, so please reach out if you are having a challenging time or need help in any of these areas💜

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