Healing with Orly

04/07/2026

08/25/2025

The secret to real permanent healing

11/08/2023

Meeting my spirit guides - A session with Orly
Rafa called me for help. He is in an existential-purpose crisis. He is happily married with kids, works in sales successfully (although he was an actor / performer) but something is shifting inside him.

Since 2020 his interested in new age spirituality. Metaphysical books are given to him. He discovered channeling on YouTube and watches many documentaries on Gaia. He can sense there is something deeper, beyond this 3D world of matter and form, and he would like to learn more. He wants to know how he can serve, how he can contribute.

I explained that now, in 2023, we are in the middle of an ascension process, moving from a 3D dualistic world (world of opposites – black and white, day and night, good and bad) to a 5D world of peace and harmony.

Like many others, Rafa grew up in the church, and later got away from religion and spirituality, however, in recent years he is awaken to a new way of seeing spirituality. No more dogma and fear. A vengeful God ruling over a bunch of sinners but a loving universe that wants the best for each of us.

Rafa was especially interested in channeling. Being able to connect to higher realms and bringing wisdom from there.

Although I perceive myself as a healer, i.e. looking to solve a problem for my clients, I decided to trust my intuition and go with Rafa for en exploration session.
Rafa was eager to meet his spirit guide and learn to connect with them.

In the soft comfy recliner Rafa got into hypnosis in seconds. I find it especially easy for creatives, to go into the zone fast and deep. I guided him to relax and go down a flight of stairs, all the way to the door at the bottom where his guide will await him.

Rafa started laughing and told me his guide was a tiny old man with a mustache a sombrero and a wicked sense of humor.
“Ask him for his name” I told Rafa. “Marco” was the answer.

I kept guiding him to move to a scene. Rafa found himself in a big space. I got in his channel and saw a big castle with a ton of books. He described it in a similar way. I knew it was the akashic record but Rafa, being a newbie, didn’t call it that.

A blond young woman, 25, showed up. He felt he was invited to choose a book.
“There are so many book here. How can I choose?” he asked me.
“Well, is any of them calling you?” I hinted.
“Yes. This one, it has light inside” He replied. He opened the book and described images from many lives. “How many lives did you live on earth?” I inquired.
“10 thousand” he answered with no hesitation.
“How about other places?” I was curious.
“Many more” he answered matter-of-fact.
“Where are you from originally?” I asked the newbie.

He took a few seconds. “I can’t recall the name. It’s a far away star.” I said quietly.
“Does it still exist?” I sensed something.
“No. it was destroyed in a war. It was very painful” He answered and kept quite for a while.
I followed suit.

Rafa took the lead and started asking his guide questions: “what should I do? How can I help?”

“Just do it!” Marco answered. “Don’t over analyze. Release the self-judgment and just do it” he added.

“What exactly should Rafa do?” I hurried to aid my client.

“The transformation humanity is going through is the same as his personal transformation. From the old notions to the new ones. From the 3D to 5D. Rafa can be a bridge between these two. He should use technology to educate about the new reality, making videos and posting them in all social media.

“Rafa was trained as an actor and is well versed.” The wise guide explained.
My client was quiet , taking it all in. Many pieces of the puzzle started coming together. His deep knowledge of Christianity, his training as a performer, his new curiosity about the beyond.

I asked Rafa how he was feeling. He said he can feel the truth of the information but he is still not sure he is capable of doing things without being a perfectionist.

The blond young lady came closer to Rafa. She introduced herself as Valery, another guide. She was Marco’s supervisor. I asked how can she be of help to Rafa. “I will help you write the books, scripts for videos, posts and other material you need to share with the world. Sort of your muse. This way you will feel more inspired and less judgmental, as you are channeling me” she explained to Rafa.
“Sounds good to me” Rafa replied.

“What level of teaching should the information be?” I asked Valery.
“Rafa, think about explaining the complex concepts of how life on Earth work, to the younger you. The curious version of you, 2 years ago. This way, you will have a target audience in mind when you write” she answered.

Rafa liked the idea. We wrapped up the session and I woke him up.
“Wow! That was interesting. I always felt I’,m not from here. I saw things differently” He shared with me. “Now you know why” I said with a smile.

I checked on Rafa a few days later. “I’m writing a lot. It just flows out of me.” He said. “Thank you for helping me meet my spirit guides and get clarity on my mission here!”

09/29/2023

Holding on to negative emotions will hurt you. When we hold on to anger, hurt, resentment and other negative emotions - they will show up, over and over in our mirror-like reality. Until we heal them, they will attract more of the same: people, situations and events. "Like attracts like".

It is crucial to deal with and heal our past hurts. Nature has a healing vibration.
Doing spiritual work, in nature, taking off your shoes, turning off the cellphone and just being, has a profound impact.

In the hot summer days, I like to take kindred soul to the river and do deep work. Is the river calling you?

Contact me if you are ready to empty the "trash can", and leaving the past in the past.
www.HealingWithOrly.com
323 497 2772

08/23/2022

As brave souls we took on the darkness, to discover the divine powers that lie within us, and transfor darkness into light. Each soul has pre-selected for itself a "negative imprint" to be born with. This negative tendency holds the key to our destiny.

Each soul has taken on situations of feeling insecure, in order to discover its power and transform insecurity into security. Each soul took on anger in order to transform it into compassion and forgiveness. Each soul has taken on an experiences of inadequacy to transform it into worthiness.

When we understand the true essence of the game of the soul In the 3D world (world of matter and form), we see the "negative imprint" as a gift not a curse. Difficult situations in life, can help us develop different abilities:

The ability to forgive.
The ability to remain calm under pressure.
The ability to value myself and others.
The ability to respect myself and others.
The ability to stand on my own and persevere.
The ability to trust.
The ability to believe
The ability to express my needs.

Most of us lack the understanding that life is a “game”. We have been indoctrinated into dogmas of good and bad, sin and punishment. As if the challenges we face are a punishment for our sins instead of being opportunities for growth.

Everything we're going through as humanity and on a personal level, all the chaos, is an opportunity to discover the power, wisdom, abundance, love, and infinite abilities that lie within us. We are all brave souls on a journey.

Some, understand the game, and stopped panicking about life challenges. Many are still “asleep”, falling into a victim role and experiencing life as continuous suffering.

The game of life is about developing the “superpowers” within us. This is expansion. As we expand, the universe expands.

Do you feel stuck? Depressed? Helpless?

Ask yourself:
What abilities am I called to develop, in order to overcome the challenge I'm currently facing?
What inner darkness within me I must transform into light, in order for me to move forward?

Share your thoughts and insights!

08/23/2022

Perfectionism - parts therapy session
“Every Friday dinner I cook for family and friends. They all praise me for being a superb cook, but preparing a big dinner takes a toll on my well being.” Dana opened.

“I race all day, just to be ready five minutes before the guests show up, then I wait for them to leave. I have been preparing and cooking for two days and at the end of the evening I force myself to do the dishes and clean the kitchen. My friends can leave the dishes over night. They don’t work so hard on preparing a meal, they just wing it. But not me. I cook four meat dishes, prepare twenty different salads and five different deserts. Not to mention baking fresh buns and cookies. Everything is made from scratch.” She explained.

“Wow!” I thought to myself. “I’m coming for dinner!” Jokes aside, this client is haunted by a part of her, that causes her be such a perfectionist.

We all have “sub personalities”, parts, we developed out of a need to survive, at some point in our lives.

For example: a kid who was bullied at school, may become a funny guy, cracking jokes to be liked instead of bullied. A sensitive boy who was ridiculed for tearing up often, may develop a protector part of a cruel man. A girl who was sexually molested may develop a persona of a seductive, to gain power over men. A kid who didn’t get love growing up, may develop an exterior of a “lonely wolf.” I-don’t- need-anyone, as a protection mechanism.

I asked my client to close her eyes, to take a few deep breathes and completely relax into the recliner. I explained there are two opposing parts inside her, and she will be speaking, or voicing, one certain internal part of her at a time.

We called upon the part that demands from her to be perfect. We asked what we should name it. My client answered promptly, with a confident demeanor: “The commander.” I asked at what age it was created, and the reply was “at 18.” This part wants her to be good. A good wife, a great mom, a gracious host, an excellent cook. It wants her to consistently give, to help everyone. It thinks it is building Dana’s confidence and identity as a good person this way. It helps her being loved by everyone and therefore, safe.

I asked to talk to the other part, which wants her to take it easy, rest, and not be so perfect. My client started talking in a gentler voice. She said this part’s name was “Sam.” It wants her to love herself, prioritize her needs and take care of herself before she collapses. It created havoc in her tummy, when she over extends herself.

We negotiated with the parts, looking for a way they will both be happy. After one hour of mediation, we agreed they both wanted what was best for my client, they just employed two different strategies of achieving this. The commander suggested it would become “the manager” instead of a “commander.” It will allow “Sam” to determine the pace and priorities bur it will make sure everything comes to fruition and happens on time. It will back off and not put impossible pressure to perform, on my client.

Both parts seemed happy with the solution we found together.

Two weeks later I received a text with a weird picture. “You see how imperfect these meatball are?” my client wrote. (To be honest, they looked rather identical to me…). “The old me would never let such a thing slide. I used to devote twenty minutes forming the meatballs into a perfect shape. Today, I spent only five minutes, and their non-identical shape doesn’t bother me. I took a lunch break. I was able to finished cooking one hour before the guests showed up, enjoyed the evening and even had the energy and the will to wash the dishes and clean the kitchen!”
www.HealingWithOrly.com

08/23/2022

The abandoned inner child. Childhood trauma such as abandonment will create a certain traits in a human. As adults, the patterns of abandonment will keep showing up in our lives, until we heal them.
Inner Child synergy is a healing modality that helps you recall the core memory from your childhood, meet the child's needs and then – integrate it into the adult self.

This healing has an amazing impact on all areas of your life. You'll be less triggered by people and situations, will feel more confident and will have more self love!

All rights reserved to Katie Gallanti, PhD
http://www.katiegallanti.com





Can you relate?

08/23/2022

Chocolate obsession - inner child work
“I’m addicted to chocolate,” said Debra with a smile. “I have a special drawer, the deep kind, in my closet, that no one is allowed to touch,” she explained. “This is serious,” I thought to myself. “I wake up in the morning, thinking about chocolate, and my last thought before I go to sleep, is chocolate. I think I tasted all the different brands in the world.” She added. Debra was very slim, attractive, and married with kids. She didn’t like that the addiction controlled her life. We decided to use inner child synergy to get to the root of things.
I put her under a relaxed state and asked her to recall an early childhood memory that would explain the mystery.

“I’m four years old, the middle daughter. I’m a happy kid. We are well off, the parents get along well. I love my father and I feel like I’m his favorite. He travels for work, a few times a year. Maybe five days at a time, but I miss him terribly.” She became emotional. “He is about to come home after his trip. I’m in the living room, anxiously waiting for him by the door, with my older brother. My Dad opens the door. We jump on him, and he hugs and kisses us.

He brings in two heavy suitcases. We know the drill. We open the gray one in the middle of the room. It is packed with goods such as shoes and clothes, but what I like the most – the exotic chocolates. Swiss, Belgium, German. You name it, they are all there. The chocolates are packaged so beautifully, individually wrapped in a golden paper. It is like art.

My brother and I split the treasure evenly. My Dad put so much love and intention into choosing these for us. Each time he brings new kinds and brands of chocolate!” She was beaming.

I asked her to explain her association with chocolate. “Daddy is back!. I’m so glad. I love him so much! I’m not close to my mom. She’s strict. Daddy spoils me and takes me on adventures.” she helped to put the pieces together.

“What does chocolate mean to you today?” I inquired. She explained that the chocolate symbolized her father’s love for her, being the favorite, feeling safe and appreciated. “Wow!” I thought to myself. “No wonder she gravitates towards chocolate many times a day. Don’t we all want to feel safe and loved and appreciated? Debra had a unique “fix” to feel that: chocolate!”

I did healing, disconnecting the association to chocolate and introducing other resources for self-validation and emotional support. When Debra came back to room awareness, she said: “you know, my chocolate drawer is the exact dimensions of the suitcase! Wide and deep and comforting!” I smiled.

A few days later I called to check on her. “The next day, habitually, I open the drawer in the morning. I looked at my stash. I felt nothing. This is weird. Am I sick? I closed it. Tried to imagine all the goodness I collected there. I open it again. No desire, nothing special, just a curated international collection of chocolates. I had to force myself to eat one, to make sure I was OK.” She shared in astonishment. “Are you OK?” I asked. “Now I’m just a regular person, not an addict” she clarified. “I can eat it. I enjoy chocolate, but I’m not obsessing over it anymore.”
www.HealingWithOrly.com

08/23/2022

How to work with the universe.

07/17/2021

Go be happy!