09/07/2025
“Do you struggle with the distance between what you thought would be and what is? Disappointment is sometimes God‘s way of leading you home. It is not proof that God is withholding something good from you. Disappointment can be a gift from God that feels nothing like a gift at all. It can be unexpectedly sharp, however, God will use it for your good. In your seasons of disappointment, God is your secure stronghold. When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears and delivers them out of all their troubles, Psalms 34:17. His eyes are on you and His ears are attentive to your cries.” Dottie Wilson
Distance between competing visions of life or of ourselves is one type of spiritual conflict….
… between what is and what one had hoped for or expected
…. between one’s desires and the fear that she won’t have the resources needed to secure them
…. between one’s secret longings or her behavior and her moral values
…. between others’ view of one’s self that has been crafted for the public and what one knows to be true of herself.
All of such dichotomies are part of what the Bible calls “doublemindedness.” It creates inner spiritual and psychological conflict. Resolution of the conflict is what the Lord desires for us…. Inner spiritual conflict resolution brings peace with God, as well as with one’s self and others. It also brings joy, contentment, healing, and wholeness. It begins with honest engagement with God, one’s self, and is often best accomplished with assidtance of a supportive, confidential person in getting to the heart of these matters in one’s soul. God is patient, kind, and waiting for us to come, real to be transparent….to be REAL. It may hurt a bit, but the outcome is definitely worth the effort. If you want to engage in a one/on-one biblical Twelve Step study, learn God’s principles for living, and practice them in a faith community with followers of Jesus, call me. It’s part of Titus 2 Partnership, Inc. ‘s Christian education and life recovery counseling ministry. No fees. First-time appointments available for self-assessment and consultation. Flexible time slots are offered to accommodate busy schedules.