11/02/2025
The Wound You Never Knew You Had -And Why Itâs Controlling Your Life
Imagine a child. Not just any childâyou.
Youâre small. Youâre bright-eyed. You feel everything with intensity. The world is alive, and so are you. But slowly, something shifts.
You cry, and someone tells you, âStop being dramatic.â
You express excitement, and they say, âCalm down.â
You feel hurt, and they dismiss it with, âIt wasnât that bad.â
Youâre scared, and they mock you with, âDonât be such a baby.â
You do well in school and they threaten you with, âDonât outshine your siblings.â
So you learn.
You learn that your emotions are wrong.
You learn that your voice is too much.
You learn that your truth is inconvenient.
And without realizing it, you begin to abandon yourself.
You Werenât Just IgnoredâYou Were Emotionally Exiled
This isnât about being âdisrespected.â This is something deeper, something more insidious.
You were gaslit into doubting your own reality.
You were conditioned to silence your own needs.
You were told that what you feel doesnât matter.
You were taught to swallow your pain like poison, hoping one day it would make you worthy.
But all it did was teach you how to shrink.
And now, as an adult, that same wound still breathes beneath your skin.
You second-guess yourself in every decision.
You apologize for things that arenât your fault.
You feel guilty for resting, for existing, for wanting more.
You chase validation like a starving dog, because deep down, you were trained to believe that love is earned through suffering and people pleasing.
And when you feel lost, broken, or empty inside, you think the problem is you.
Itâs not.
The Silent Epidemic: How This Wound Shapes Your Entire Life
This is not just a ârough childhood.â This is the root cause of anxiety, burnout, depression, addictions, fears, and deep-seated feelings of inadequacy.
Why? Because when you are forced to abandon your emotions, you are forced to abandon yourself.
And a person who doesnât trust themselves can never feel safe in the world.
This is why therapy, mindset work, and positive thinking fail for so many people. Theyâre trying to âthinkâ their way out of something that was programmed into their subconscious long before they even had words for it.
Real healing doesnât happen by faking confidence or repeating affirmations in the mirror. It happens when your subconscious and conscious mind stop fighting each other.
It happens when you unlearn the lie that your emotions make you weak.
It happens when you reclaim the voice that was stolen from you.
It happens when you stop abandoning yourself just to belong.
And when that happens? Everything changes.
Because healing isnât about becoming someone new.
Itâs about remembering who you were before the world told you who to be.
If this hit you like a ton of bricks, itâs because this is the truth youâve always felt but never had the words for.
And no, youâre not broken.
Youâve just been programmed to betray yourselfâbut that programming can be undone. This is exactly what I help people with. Not surface-level fixes, not mindset tricks, but deep, subconscious reprogramming that sets you free at the core.
If youâre done carrying the weight of this and ready to reclaim yourself, Iâm the person who will help you do it. Letâs talk.
