Rachel Henning LPC, CST

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We put so much pressure on ourselves to have it all together. You might feel the need to collect yourself before you can...
04/12/2026

We put so much pressure on ourselves to have it all together. You might feel the need to collect yourself before you can laugh at the dogs or enjoy moments that matter. But healing isn’t linear; it’s learning how to hold the heavy stuff in one hand and a cup of coffee in the other.

You don’t have to be perfectly regulated to still be okay, and you certainly don’t have to be “fixed” to experience joy. Life is found in the unscripted mess and simple moments, the loud laughter, and even the days where you’re just doing your best to breathe.

You’re allowed to be a work in progress and still be deeply, wildly happy in the middle of it. Joy isn’t a reward for finishing your healing journey; it’s a gift you’re allowed to open right now, even when things feel a little shaky.

Take in the beauty and the chaos today, exactly as you are. You’re doing so much better than you think.

Rachel Henning, LPC, CST, LMFT
Licensed Professional Counselor
EMDR, Certified S_x Therapist
ICP IASIS MCN Provider

You walked down the aisle thinking the struggle with purity culture was finally over, only to find that its rules follow...
04/10/2026

You walked down the aisle thinking the struggle with purity culture was finally over, only to find that its rules followed you right into your honeymoon.

It’s exhausting to feel like you’re failing at the one thing that was supposed to be “godly” and “good” once you were married. When one of you is overriding your own comfort just to keep the peace, and the other is pursuing closeness through a lens of entitlement, authentic desire simply can’t breathe.

This isn’t a character flaw in either of you; it’s the result of a system that taught you how to perform roles instead of how to be humans. You weren’t given the tools to navigate different levels of desire or the language for healthy boundaries, so your bodies are doing the only thing they know how to do: protect themselves.

Your marriage isn’t a mistake — you’re just unlearning a script that was never meant for your joy. It’s okay to slow down, name the cycle, and start over; when you’re ready.

Rachel Henning, LPC, CST, LMFT
Licensed Professional Counselor
EMDR, Certified S_x Therapist
ICP IASIS MCN Provider

The list of games that are good for your brain has arrived!As I explained in my previous post, there are certain games a...
03/31/2026

The list of games that are good for your brain has arrived!

As I explained in my previous post, there are certain games and hobbies that utilize repetition, pattern recognition, and visual problem solving. These games use the same cognitive energy involved in memory and emotional processing! This phenomenon has been coined, the “Tetris Effect.”

I listed out a handful of games — available on your phone, pc, or console — and hands-on hobbies that mimic the Tetris Effect in similar ways. Let me know which one you try first!

Rachel Henning, LPC, CST, LMFT
Licensed Professional Counselor
EMDR, Certified S_x Therapist
ICP IASIS MCN Provider

Just a reminder: video games and hobbies do NOT replace good therapy, nor are they stand alone treatments. They’re support tools that can be complementary to your existing care.

Do you ever find yourself pulling away from a simple hug or a hand on your shoulder because your brain has already fast-...
03/24/2026

Do you ever find yourself pulling away from a simple hug or a hand on your shoulder because your brain has already fast-forwarded to the bedroom?

Your nervous system has learned to view touch as a contract rather than a connection. Those old voices telling you “not to be a tease” or that “if you start it, you have to finish it” have turned a moment of affection into a high-stakes negotiation. It’s exhausting to always be on guard, managing expectations before they’ve even been voiced.

I want you to know that your body is just trying to protect you in the way that it was taught to — that touch must lead to sⓔx. But this anticipatory anxiety and a tendency to avoid closeness can interfere with your relationship and ultimately reduce feelings of safety for both partners.

You are allowed to enjoy affection or a cuddle without it needing to lead anywhere or mean anything more than a silent “I love you.” It’s never too late to unlearn the beliefs that were given to you; when you’re ready 🤍

Rachel Henning, LPC, CST, LMFT
Licensed Professional Counselor
EMDR, Certified S_x Therapist
ICP IASIS MCN Provider

03/22/2026

Your connection needs a different kind of attention right now, and that’s perfectly okay.
A sⓔxless marriage doesn’t mean it’s a loveless one. It’s usually due to life taking over your time and a lack of addressing the elephant in the room, because quite frankly, it feels like a loaded conversation.

Most of the couples I talk to really love and enjoy each other, they have a wonderful partnership. But they avoid these conversations because it can be uncomfortable and emotional, so they turn to self-protection because that can feel easier.

You’d be surprised (just like my clients are) how when the emotional connection starts healing, so does the sⓔxual connection. Start with asking yourself, “How does the idea of sⓔx make me feel? Why might these feelings arise?” It starts with understanding what feels bigger than the connection.

Having these kinds of conversations with your partner can be challenging. That’s why I’m here - to provide guidance and clarity in a judgement-free, trauma-informed space 🤍

Rachel Henning, LPC, CST, LMFT
Licensed Professional Counselor
EMDR, Certified S_x Therapist
ICP IASIS MCN Provider

Your body isn’t an enemy to conquer, rather, a friend that needs reassurance.There’s a version of your life where peace ...
03/17/2026

Your body isn’t an enemy to conquer, rather, a friend that needs reassurance.
There’s a version of your life where peace doesn’t feel like a threat, but it takes time to convince your system that the fight for safety is over. Healing starts small - one deep breath or moment of calm at a time. And when you can begin to recognize these signals your body is sending you, you’re just one step closer to healing your nervous system.

When you’ve spent so long being on duty for everyone else, it’s okay to finally be on your own side.

That version of you is waiting, and I’d be honored to hold space for you while you find them 🤍

Rachel Henning, LPC, CST, LMFT
Licensed Professional Counselor
EMDR, Certified S_x Therapist
ICP IASIS MCN Provider

And she loves every minute of it.Itty bitty Rachel set up her own practice as a ‘psychologist’ with a poster board on he...
03/14/2026

And she loves every minute of it.
Itty bitty Rachel set up her own practice as a ‘psychologist’ with a poster board on her bedroom door charging 10 cents for her services. Little did she know what her life would look like when she was a grown up ☺️
I’m so grateful to have the ability to help others move through their feelings, achieve self discovery, reclaim their sexuality, and teach them how to nurture their nervous system.
Everyone deserves a happy heart and a peaceful mind.

Rachel Henning, LPC, CST, LMFT
Licensed Professional Counselor
EMDR, Certified S_x Therapist
ICP IASIS MCN Provider

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