11/16/2025
Breathwork can significantly reduce stress and anxiety during the holidays for older women by promoting relaxation and a sense of calm. Simple techniques like diaphragmatic breathing (belly breathing) or the 4-7-8 method are accessible and can be practiced anywhere to slow the heart rate and regulate breathing.
To begin, find a comfortable position, place one hand on your abdomen and one on your chest, and inhale slowly through your nose, focusing on the feeling of your belly rising, then exhale slowly through your mouth.
Diaphragmatic breathing (belly breathing)
Find a comfortable position: Sit upright in a chair with your feet flat on the floor or lie down on your back.
Place your hands: Put one hand on your chest and the other on your stomach so you can feel the movement.
Inhale deeply: Breathe in slowly and deeply through your nose, feeling your stomach expand with air while your chest remains relatively still.
Exhale slowly: Exhale slowly and fully through your mouth or nose, allowing your stomach to fall back to its starting position.
Focus on the breath: Pay attention to the sensation of the breath moving in and out of your body.
Repeat: Continue this process for a few minutes or until you feel more relaxed.
4-7-8 breathing exercise
Sit comfortably: Sit with a straight back and place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth, behind your upper front teeth.
Exhale completely: Close your mouth and exhale completely through your mouth, making a "whoosh" sound.
Inhale quietly: Close your mouth and inhale quietly through your nose to a mental count of four.
Hold your breath: Hold your breath for a mental count of seven.
Exhale completely: Exhale completely through your mouth, making the "whoosh" sound to a count of eight.
Repeat: Repeat this cycle four times.
Tips for the holidays
Find a quiet moment: If you feel overwhelmed, take a few minutes alone to breathe deeply.
Use it anytime: This practice can be done anywhere, even in the middle of a holiday gathering.
Be patient: It can take time to get used to the practice, so be patient with yourself.
Focus on relaxation: The goal is to relax your body, not to force an outcome.