17/09/2020
âIt was definitely hard at first when we went online last semester. You just learn to adapt and overcome. That sounds cliche and cheesy but it helped me learn how to change and adjust when stuff goes south. I stayed here in Marquette in the dorms for the remainder of last semester. All my roommates and buddies were still here so I wasnât completely alone. We found ways to still have fun while social distancing. We spent a lot of time climbing and finding other outdoor things to do. Having all the gyms close down was a big thing for me at first. I would climb a lot at the PEIF so I definitely didnât know what to do with myself for a bit. I started climbing outside which is something that I am super glad I did. Just having to hangout with yourself and occupy yourself for long periods of time though was challenging.
Before NMU went fully online last semester, we kind of joked about it. Then the dining hall closed and the PEIF closed, and things just started to go one at a time. That is when we were like âwoah! Okay, this is real. We have to wake upâ! I remember being in class when Michigan Tech closed and it was big news. This semester is different. Still not ideal obviously but it is a lot better so far. Last semester, everyone left and we were all doing online school alone. This semester, it feels more like we are all doing online school together. Everyone is here now and some people are walking around on campus now. We are all stronger together.
Having to social distance for a long period of time took a toll on my mental health for sure. Doing everything alone was such a big change. I mean, everyone knew that the social stuff was gone, so there was a lot of self-reflecting going on. Personally, I have picked up some new hobbies and things that help me cope if Iâm feeling lonely. I started drawing and doing more art. I feel like everyone picked that up even if they were horrible at it. My advice would be to pick up something new. Something that scares you.
Like I said earlier, at the start of COVID, I didnât go home. There were some things happening with my family at home so I wasnât with my family. Even though my parents were struggling at home, I stayed up here in Marquette. It sucked being away from family. On top of that, two weeks ago my grandpa passed away from COVID. So, just to put it into perspective, everyone is going through things, especially right now. No one would know that about me just from the surface. That goes for everyone as well. Everyone is going through something. If people see me climbing and posting fun pictures on instagram, they arenât going to think âoh, she is probably going through some things right nowâ. I love posting pictures and everyone just loves being all cute and artsy on instagram, myself included. But thatâs not real.â
BEHIND THE MASK
-Kelsey Hill, Sophomore, Graphic Design