11/21/2025
💫 “Boundaries: The Bridge Back to Myself” 💫
I used to believe that love meant saying yes — to everything and everyone.
That to be a “good” daughter, partner, coach, or friend…
I had to always be available, always say “yes,” and never disappoint.
But behind my smile, I was exhausted, resentful, and disappearing.
I didn’t have boundaries.
I had walls of silence and waves of guilt.
Because I didn’t know how to say NO without shame…
…or how to say YES to myself without feeling selfish.
Until one day, I broke down.
I remember standing in my kitchen, feeling like I had nothing left to give —
because I had given it all away.
That’s when my healing truly began. 🦋
I realized boundaries weren’t about keeping others out.
They were about calling myself home.
🛑 Boundaries taught me:
That saying “no” to others can be saying “yes” to myself
That I’m not here to be everything for everyone — just to be true to me
That love isn’t obligation — it’s choice, rooted in respect
I started setting little boundaries:
✨ “I’ll get back to you tomorrow.”
✨ “That doesn’t feel aligned for me right now.”
✨ “I’m not available, but I wish you the best.”
✨ “I love you — but I need space.”
And slowly…
I reclaimed my peace.
I became the safe space I was looking for in others.
💜 If you’ve ever felt like setting boundaries is “mean” or “too much” — hear this:
👉 Boundaries aren’t barriers. They’re bridges.
They lead us back to who we truly are.
So let me ask you...
Where do you need to draw a loving line?
What part of you is waiting to feel protected, honored, and free?
Let’s talk about it. 💬 Drop a 🛡️ in the comments if you’re ready to protect your peace.
With love,
Monica Ramirez
The Warrior of Love 🦋
Painting by Monica Ramirez