14/05/2022
Having conscious communication with your children is an art and not something you were born with, it is a tool to be trained in, otherwise you default to the communication your parents used with you.
It is not easy. It means you have to be in service to the other person, listening , seeing and hearing them without giving advice that is unsolicited, without judging, without telling them how they should or shouldn’t do things.
Being a “vacuume “ and helping suck the information out of them, so they discover for themselves their own inner work thats to be done , is more useful than imposing what you think they “should or shouldn’t do”.
Watch how my daughter discovers for herself where she is responsible for the drama that was created. It starts with her blaming the other one and then by the end she sees her part in it.
Watch how I ask her permission to offer possibilities instead of just giving advice.
Watch how I mirror her so she really sees that her mom is seeing her and hearing her.
Because of this style of communication my 19-year-old daughter comes to me with her problems , comes to me with her pain , and I am in service to support her for what she asks for, not what I think she needs.
it’s always about us and what we are doing to create the relationships and the life that we have.
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