Single Mom's That Work

01/20/2024

08/04/2022

A MESSAGE FOR MEN...
I get a lot of random messages on here from strange men asking what turns me on.
So, I thought I might just put it out there because I think I speak for a lot of women on this and I’m here to help.
Do you want to know what turns me on? What makes me burn for you?
What makes us breathless? What awakens every passionate instinct and unwraps every layer of fiery feminine sensuality?
Go to freaking therapy.
Do your inner work.
Heal yourself.
Lead yourself.
Be brave enough to get uncomfortable for the sake of wholeness and depth.
Be willing to build your emotional muscle so your arms are strong enough to hold the fire of an awakened woman.
Be open enough to lean into a level of depth you’ve never experienced.
Talk.
Be humble enough to admit that you don’t know everything.
Go deep.
Get real.
Stop hiding behind surface-level s*x.
Evolve.
Confront what you need to confront so you can move forward without the shadow of your past.
Stop thinking that vulnerability is weakness. It takes a GIANT of a wild man to get vulnerable and it’s HOT.
Stop running from magic when it’s exactly what you need.
Stop telling yourself she’s too much when the reality is you’re just afraid to be enough.
Lead yourself so you can lead ME.
Believe that you can handle it. Act accordingly.
Be the safe space. The strong ground. The calm for her storm.
Do this and you’ll find your Goddess. Do this and you’ll be taken to a place of wholeness and ecstasy you didn’t know existed and likely wouldn’t have found on your own.
Do this… and you’ll be home.~

P.S. Girls - do the same or stop complaining. 😉

~Gina Caruso Hussar

05/05/2022

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It was when the man ignored me, I found the hidden power of putting myself first
It was when the man didn't listen to my words, I found out how to change my inner dialogue
It was when the man didn't see me, I learned to look my demons in their eyes
It was when the man was unavailable, I started to meet my Self deeply
It was when the man wouldn't hold me while the anxiety was covering me with her dark wings, I felt the courage of the Lioness in my heart
It was when the man dismissed my pain, I learned how to navigate through the ocean of my deeply felt emotions
It was when the man deprived me of attention, I discovered the profound healing of Self-pleasure
It was when the man was disrespecting me, I realized there was an unbreakable container filled with dignity hidden under my tears
It was when the man was spitting on me, I found the value of Self-worth
It was when the man neglected my needs, I realized that I deserve the very best
It was when the man was showing me his ugly, I discovered the magic of Self-love
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I am grateful to the man for not giving me any of the things
I needed, because I realized that I want, deserve, and can have only the best experience called Life
And that's worth every tear, pain, and all the deficiency because the most important of it all was that I realized I can give EVERYTHING I desire to
mySelf.
So now, dear man, I am releasing you from all the mandatory made duties you couldn't keep up with anyway.
I let go of all requirements I had towards you.
I set you free.
I need nothing from you.
I have it all in my Self.
Always.
I am the Woman.

~ Nika 🖤

04/17/2021

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