01/05/2026
If you're considering hiring a midwife, here's the truth:
You're allowed to ask all the questions.
And you're also allowed to trust what you feel in your body and heart. Choosing a midwife isn't just about credentials or answers. It's about connection, safety, and feeling deeply held.
When it's the right fit, you'll feel it. Still, asking thoughtful questions can help bring clarity, confidence, and peace of mind, especially for your partner.
Here are some gentle questions you might ask as you explore working together:
* How do you support autonomy and decision-making during labor?
* What does holding space look like for you as a midwife?
* How do you support partners during labor and birth?
* How do you honor the emotional and spiritual aspects of birth?
* What does your care include, and what is the investment?
* How many clients do you take per month?
* What kind of support is available if labor is long, intense, or emotionally challenging?
* How do you support families postpartum?
* How often do transfers happen in your practice, and what are the most common reasons?
* How do you support families emotionally if a transfer becomes necessary?
* Will you remain involved and supportive if we transfer to the hospital?
* What does your support look like if birth unfolds differently than hoped?
* How do you monitor the wellbeing of both parent and baby during labor?
* What signs would let you know that extra support or a transfer is needed?
* How do you handle emergencies, and what equipment do you bring with you?
Birth is not something to control, it's something to be supported through. Ask the questions. Feel into the answers.
Trust yourself.