08/14/2025
I completely agree. Talking with other women openly is so healing!
Grown woman talk: the original cortisol cure!
When women connect in safe, supportive spaces, something remarkable happens: our oxytocin rises, our cortisol falls.
Psychologist Shelley Taylor calls it tend and befriend—a stress response as real and i mportant as “fight or flight.”
I’m so passionate about this that I devoted a chapter to it in both The Adrenal Thyroid Revolution and Hormone Intelligence.
Why? Because cortisol on overdrive - as it is for so many of us- impacts everything from our menstrual cycles and fertility to our thyroid, metabolism, and even how we sleep and age.
When cortisol stays high, it can disrupt ovulation, worsen PMS, fuel weight gain around the middle, spike blood sugar, and contribute to anxiety, depression, and burnout. Think inflammaging and an extra dose of symptoms, too!
Lowering it is powerful medicine that doesn’t come from or the Pill. It’s an inside job.
✨ A few ways to bring cortisol down:
• Make regular time for connection with friends. Don’t worry about sharing your honest challenges - both giver and receiver actually benefit (within limits of that friend who is always venting!)
• Spend time in nature.
• Practice slow, deep breathing or meditation especially if you wake up at night!
• Prioritize restorative sleep.
💬 Who is your anytime, anything person who makes you feel safer and lighter? Tag her in the comments so she knows!
📚 Learn more about cortisol in The Adrenal Thyroid Revolution and Hormone Intelligence—both have an entire chapter on this truly life-changing science.