04/02/2022
What better day than National Autism Awareness Day to introduce you to the little guy that introduced us to the autism world.
My Liam is special. He is smarter than me, can hear music in ways I’m deaf to and hasn’t had a mean bone in him. He is loving to everyone he meets and the best brother ever.
But he represents the “fortunate” side of autism, if that’s even the right world to describe it. Liam’s autism comes with more strengths than weaknesses. Sure we have our struggles, autism is never “easy”, but Liam doesn’t face the struggles millions of autistic children face around the world today.
Liam is the pretty side of autism, the side the autistic community claims to be a superpower. He can communicate almost at a neurotypical level. He does well in school in a normal setting and has never been in a contained classroom. Liam doesn’t need to be shielded from the world around him. Lights don’t bother him, sounds don’t bother him too much, in fact he enjoys concerts, and stuffs his face with anything I put in his plate. Liam has never been a danger to himself or others, and other than biting his nails, he has never caused self-harm or harmed others. On the contrary, Liam is affectionate and gentle.
Liam is in the side of autism that makes people believe there is nothing wrong with the autism pandemic. The side that presents itself as just “different” and not something to be fixed. The side that casts its shadow on the millions of children whose system is so dysregulated they might never function in this world on their own.
Because I work with autistic children facing extraordinary struggles, I am hyper-aware of how “easy” we have it and accept the struggles we do have with a lot of grace and always give credit to his progress to a clean diet and lifestyle. Liam would not be where he is had we relied on the conventional approach to autism. A truth that thankfully is getting more and more traction everyday.
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