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The being pregnant for 10 months one is a lie! You wanna know the secret formula for figuring out a due date? From your ...
06/06/2017

The being pregnant for 10 months one is a lie! You wanna know the secret formula for figuring out a due date? From your last period count back 3 months then add 2 weeks because you generally ovulate 2 weeks after your period. 12 months in a year count back 3 12-3=9. It gets confusing because of 40 weeks and people thinking a month is 4 weeks. For some reason at conception you are considered 2 weeks pregnant, even though you really just got pregnant. So that means pregnancy is 38 weeks. If a month was 4 weeks then 36 weeks would be 9 months made but, only February is 28 days. The rest are 2-3 days longer, 2*9=18 which is actually longer than the additional two weeks it takes to get to 38 weeks.

The stork brings the baby, right? Nah, our lack of knowledge isn't that bad, but it certainly helps to hear about pregnancy from real life moms who have actually been through it and can spill the beans about how those nine, errr, ten months really feel. Read on for ten pregnancy truths. RELATED: Thi...

I firmly believe that while we as midwives should offer some level of comfort support, the level given by doulas require...
05/19/2017

I firmly believe that while we as midwives should offer some level of comfort support, the level given by doulas requires so much energy and attention that if you try to be both you won't have enough left to do all the midwifery parts of your job and most of the important ones come after you've been there for hours. I'm a midwife, my mom has labor support experience, my husband is awesome, my midwives are great. I still personally hire a doula for my birth.

You are so excited! You are pregnant and you know you want an experience different from all the stories you've heard growing up. You want a midwife. That is awesome. Knowing what kind of care provider you feel most comfortable with is undeniably the best thing going into birth for the first

05/03/2017

Today is World Maternal Mental Health Day...maternal mental health matters! So many women suffer silently. If you are a mom in need of help, I encourage you to reach out today to someone you can trust and do something for yourself, which in turn could be the best thing not only for you but for your children and family.

This article reminds me of the advice in Hypnobabies (Official). And they are both right, people tell pregnant women all...
04/03/2017

This article reminds me of the advice in Hypnobabies (Official). And they are both right, people tell pregnant women all sorts of stories and give unwanted advice for a variety of reasons, mostly non malicious ones, but you don't have to listen to/accept everything they say. It's ok to cut people off and choose to focus on the positive!
http://thespinoff.co.nz/parenting/31-03-2017/im-going-to-stop-you-there-and-other-conversational-comebacks-to-protect-your-pregnant-soul/

Every pregnant person has struggled with unsolicited advice and comments on their body. Spinoff Parents columnist and mum of two Thalia Kehoe Rowden has tips and ways to reply to well-meaning strangers who are overstepping or oversharing. It starts early. You've seen two lines on a pregnancy t

03/30/2017

This is very important. I love that as midwives we offer more frequent postpartum care, it allows us to help our clients with any issues that come up. I wish all women had easier access to postpartum care between when they check out of the hospital and the 6 week visit.

I don't know if I agree with all of these, but I like that they mention 99 is not technically a fever and focus on if th...
03/22/2017

I don't know if I agree with all of these, but I like that they mention 99 is not technically a fever and focus on if the child can learn or not. And while they are yucky and difficult to get rid of, I agree with the lice recommendation, there are a number of things people freak out about when really it's too late. That being said better sick leave would be great as it would allow parents to make decisions based on what they 100% feel is best for their child without having to consider things like if I stay home too much we might not have money for food, or I might lose my job and we'll be homeless- which of course outweighs the child going to school or daycare when not 100%.

It’s 6 a.m., you are running late for work and your kid is “kinda” sick. Can you send him to daycare? Yesterday we reviewed with an audience of early childhood education teachers …

12/22/2016
11/18/2016

With low risk women (the population that home birth midwives serve) it really can be this simple. We're there just in case.

07/19/2016

PSA: You should never ever ever wax your va**na. That would be very difficult, likely cause damage, and no hair grows there anyway. If you are confused by this post I am willing to offer free anatomy & physiology classes..

A very sad personal experience that has influenced her perception of reality.  There are babies who can't get enough mil...
06/23/2016

A very sad personal experience that has influenced her perception of reality. There are babies who can't get enough milk from breastfeeding alone, cutie baby was one of them, but in general exclusive breastfeeding is safe and healthy for the babies of moms who choose to do it.

Here is some of her story in quotes with my comments after
" We were discharged at 48 hours at 5% weight loss with next-day follow-up."
--This is a normal amount of weight loss

"We saw our pediatrician at around 68 hours of life (end of day 3). Despite producing the expected number of wet and dirty diapers, he had lost 1 pound 5 ounces, about 15% of his birth weight."
--This is not within the normal limits and standard of care is that their Dr should make a solid plan to help this mom and baby.

"At the time, we were not aware of and were not told the percentage lost, and having been up all night long trying to feed a hungry baby, we were too exhausted to figure out that this was an incredible amount of weight loss. He was jaundiced but no bilirubin was checked."
--Not sure how she knows he had jaundice or if it looked serious why the Dr wouldn't have verified it by checking bilirubin levels.

"Our pediatrician told us that we had the option of either feeding formula or waiting for my milk to come in at day 4 or 5 of life."
--What??? I wasn't there and I don't know the circumstance or why the Dr made this decision, but this is not the standard of care. They should have been told the seriousness of the situation and given information on supplementing and told the potential issues that could occur if the baby didn't eat. Cutie baby lost way less than this before people starting being like your child needs food NOW and started weighing her extra and pretty much REQUIRING I supplement with something - we got donor breast milk starting on day 2 of life.

"Wanting badly to succeed in breastfeeding him, we went another day unsuccessfully breastfeeding and went to a lactation consultant the next day who weighed his feeding and discovered that he was getting absolutely no milk. When I pumped and manually expressed, I realized I produced nothing." --The pre and post weight is an ok measure but it has been proven that pumping is not an accurate way to measure production.

It is very sad her baby was injured and I agree that more should've been done to warn her, but looking at all the numbers she presents there aren't large quantities of babies with issues. Certainly not enough babies to warrant all the protocols she wants to put in place. Let's look at the numbers in this quote " In fact, a study has shown that exclusive breastfeeding at discharge is associated with an 11-fold higher risk of rehospitalization for underfeeding and dehydration." The number of babies that were rehospitalized is 2.1 in 1000 that's breastfed and bottle fed combined so that 11 fold higher risk is within that 0.21% which isn't high at all. Also she says "In a study of 280 mother-baby dyads, 22% of motivated mothers intending to exclusively breastfeed who received close lactation support experienced delayed onset of copious milk production, or lactogenesis II, which put her child at 7-fold increased risk of excessive weight loss greater than 10%." 280 is not a big enough number to generalize this information to the whole population of California (where the study took place) let alone the United States. Also even though 22% of moms had delayed onset of milk production only 12% of the babies had excess weight loss which contradicts her statement of "This means more than 1 in 5 newborns are at risk of starvation-related complications if exclusively breastfed from birth." While they were technically at risk the study showed that half of those 1 in 5 babies were fine.

I agree that women need to be educated on the risks and what potential issues to look for when exclusive breastfeeding, but some of her recommendations seem a bit excessive/unnecessary.

I have more comments on this and want to look more into other studies she mentions. I will make an expanded post on my site in the next few days. But right now cutie baby thinks she needs to nurse!

http://insufficientbreastfeedingdangers.blogspot.com/2015/02/letter-to-doctors-and-parents-about_28.html

This is a blog created to inform the public of the dangers of insufficient feeding of exclusively breastfed newborns in the first days of life. Breastfeeding should be achieved with the baby's safety as the top priority. The current guidelines do not sufficiently protect newborns from being underfed...

06/23/2016

Not trying to start an argument about if abortions should be legal or if they are morally ok, just trying to understand how this is considered a "win". I understand what the law says and that technically referring everyone to Planned Parenthood was in violation of that but this "The hospital argued that it’s OK with having abortions performed on-site, but that it doesn’t have staff members who are willing to provide the services." is an issue. They don't have any providers who will do this, but they can't just refer to other places... I don't see how them having to accept a patient when they don't have a provider to perform the service is going to be useful. Also as a side note from what I learned when we had a client with a 2nd trimester pregnancy loss and wanted active management - the PP in Mt. V doesn't perform surgical abortions, you have to go to Everett or Bellingham for that.

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