11/26/2025
Hereâs what I tell the people I mentor:
You donât get better with kids by being fearless.
You get better by being prepared, supported, and taughtâone experience at a time. Your confidence comes from repetition, knowledge, and having someone beside you who keeps the scene calm even when the stakes feel sky-high.
A good mentor doesnât just show you what to do with a sick child.
They show you how to think.
They teach you to slow your breath so you can hear the tiny details: a quiet cry, a retraction, a change in tone.
They remind you that kids crash fast but respond fast too.
They walk you through dosing until math becomes muscle memory, not panic.
They teach you that sick vs. not sick is the first vitals sign.
They help you build a pediatric lensânot fear, but focus.
And they donât shame you for the nerves.
They normalize them.
They say, âYouâre human. This is hard. But you are capable.â
Because confidence in pediatrics isnât born from perfection.
Itâs built from support.
The tough mentorsâthe ones who belittle or say, âItâs just a kid, youâll figure it outââthey donât produce stronger medics.
They produce quieter ones.
And nothing in pediatrics should be quiet except your mind in the moment you need to act.
So hereâs the guidance I wish every new provider received:
⢠Have Access to your dosing routes and options before the call ever drops. You donât need it memorized.
⢠Trust your gutâkids are honest; if they look bad, they are bad.
⢠Keep the parents close, not away. They give you more information than a monitor ever could.
⢠Small victories matter. A warmed blanket, bubbles, a calm voiceâthese arenât minor, theyâre essential.
Most of all:
You donât have to be fearless to be good at pediatrics.
You just need someone willing to teach you the way they wish someone taught them.
And one day, youâll be that person for someone elseâthe steady voice, the calm presence, the mentor who turns fear into focus.