Rev.Rucifer

Rev. Rucifer is a sex+ educator, Usui Reiki L4 teacher, event producer, and founder of Alaya Rose.

Rev.Rucifer is an energy worker, B - D - S - M practitioner and pleasure coach. Her work invites us to release shame and come into a more conscious connection with pleasure and healing. She promotes practices of conscious B- D - S - M and sacred sexuality through workshops, events and private sessions, including Sensual Reiki and Reiki Bondage, a B- D - S - M-inspired healing practice. She has helped thousands of people from all over the world uncover their pleasure within and develop practices that cultivate personal safety, care and respect. has made it her life's work to help individuals, organizations and companies to embrace all that life has to offer through meaningful dialogue, transformative change and the pursuit of pleasure. Her work has been featured in Forbes, Cosmopolitan, The New York Times, Seasons 1 & 2 of Sex Life on EPIX just to name a few.

11/25/2025

My heart has felt so full lately - with gratitude, a sense of belonging and growth that is pulling forward the next version of me.

As I reflect on the last 8 years of my business and begin planning for the next, I would love your input.

If you’ve joined a workshop, event, reiki circle, or coaching session with me, your experience matters to me!

Slide into those DMs and I’ll send you the link to send your thoughts and feedback.

Your reflections help me to evolve, expand and continue to create spaces that feel meaningful and supportive.

Thank you so much for being a part of this journey with me!

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11/23/2025

A Friday afternoon in Paris with .

September 5, 2025 ✨.paris

More rope in Europe & beyond. Yes, please 🙏

11/17/2025

Eight years ago today, I made a quiet decision that changed everything.

I didn’t “launch a business.”
I didn’t tell anyone.
I literally just filed paperwork and went back to work.

Eight months later, I was fired.

And that tiny decision became the doorway to the life I live now.

I’ve grown.
I’ve healed.
I’ve reinvented myself again and again.

This business has held me through every version.

And you—yes, YOU—have been part of that evolution.

Every like, every message, every session, every share… it’s all part of the story.

Here’s what I know now:

✨ The life you want is already unfolding.

✨ Trust the quiet choices.

✨ Trust the timing.

And trust yourself, even when you have no idea what comes next.

Here’s to year eight. ∞

09/30/2025

It feels really special that we’re collectively building a rope community here in the Hudson Valley.

There are munches, jams, workshops and parties like the one I’m hosting this Saturday, Oct 4th. This is a space to connect, play and vibe with others around the shared interest of b0ndage and r0pe play.

This will be our third “Into the Deep” which includes a workshop from 6-8 PM followed by the party from 8 PM - Midnight.

If you’re brand new and curious, or locked in and serious, this is a space for you. 🪢

The party starts with an overview of consent and community agreements, followed by open play time. The past ones have also included a closing circle to reflect on our time together.

I deeply cherish these spaces and am so excited to play and connect with you!

Vetting is required with and ends today! Hope to see you there.

DMs are open for any questions!

All the love 💕

03/05/2025

Behind the scenes of something special… 🎬

If there’s one thing I know to be true, it’s that everything is changing all the time.

For years now, I have shared my love of sacred intimacy, conscious B D S M and the power of pleasure within our lives. As I have trusted and followed in this path, I feel a new energy emerging… Intimacy Coordination for Fim & TV.

Last year I had the absolute pleasure of working on both film & tv projects as a B D S M consultant - helping with actor mindset, choreography, and a little bo***ge movie magic.

Thanks to this, I also was invited to speak at the Summit in April (‼️) to share about the authentic portrayals of these worlds in the media. 🤯

I am now diving deeper into, learning more and continuing to hone my craft and it feels like the perfect fusion of everything I love…

🎥 Media & the creative arts
💗 Safer expressions of intimacy
⚖️ S*xual harassment prevention
🔥 The real, raw and unfiltered beauty of human connection.

Thank you to for inviting me to be a part of the production of By The Roots, and .elefante for the introduction. Deep gratitude to for throwing my name out in rooms I hope to be in one day 🙏✨💗

Also… this independent film is still in production and is currently running an campaign to help with funding post-production…you can even get an associate producer credit! 💸

What’s emerging in your world? I’d love to know. 💗

02/18/2025

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02/01/2025

Our first Blessed of the year is tomorrow!

This is one of my most cherished of spaces - one that invites us all to deeper honesty and intimacy with Self.

If I’m to truly be honest, I almost didn’t bring this event forward in the new year. I, myself, have felt myself fall into a performative feeling of trying to pease others. I would show off, participate fully and expose myself knowing that it can please others as part of this experience.

The truth is that this wasn’t totally authentic, and I could FEEL it.

Tomorrow night, I am vowing to hold this space agin, guiding others through this journey, all while deeply honoring what my body also desires and wants.

My default is pleasing others; and it’s best when I can remember this about myself and tune back into the wisdom of my body. I tune into where the pleasure is within.

Join us tomorrow night at 8 PM as we explore authentic expression of €rotic energy.

DM or comment “BLESSED” and I’ll send you the link! 💗

Hope to see you there!

01/05/2025

Last year I adopted a phrase that gave me so much freedom…

“I don’t know.”

As much as I thought I knew, the more I thought I was learning the more I uncovered that I don’t know much of anything at all.

I have no idea why we’re here or why we exist.

I have no idea why 14 billion years conspired so that I could sit in traffic.

I have no idea why we fight and argue when it’s a miracle we’re even here.

This year, I realize I have learned one thing…

“Everything is changing all the time.”

Keep your mind open and relish in the truth that none of this lasts.

I look at the clouds passing by and am reminded with everything in my life… “this too shall pass.”

The good - the bad - the ugly - the most amazing - the most horrific…it will all pass and Life will go on.

Our opportunity is to be present with it, to experience it all, and to learn the lessons that our soul is here to learn.

Stepping into this year, this is all I know, and I embrace the simplicity that the only constant is the constant evolution of everything, all the time.

💗

12/31/2024

Life is a ceremony.

Honor all of the steps you’ve taken to arrive in this moment.

Embrace all that is as it is as in service of your healing and evolution.

Stand firmly in the conviction of your present moment.

Cast visions of the future.

Tap into the vibration and feeling of all that you desire.

Know that you are worthy of it all.

Thank you to those who joined Your Vibe ‘25, our live intention setting ceremony. It was a powerful space to get clear, honor our journey and step into the great unknown.

Get a copy of the recording and tap into the power of your own intentions.

With all of my love, I wish you an abundant and expansive 2025. You are amazing!!

12/28/2024

Wow! What a year!

Looking back and reflecting on all that has moved through me in this year.

It’s been a year of evolution, grace, healing and expansion. I feel more grounded in myself and my purpose than ever before.

I am clearer about how my own attitudes, behaviors and beliefs have created harm, destruction and suffering.

I have gained tools that allow me to change myself and evolve into all that I am.

I am continuing to trust in the perfect unfolding of all things, while changing the things that I can.

I am learning to welcome and embrace the magic and mystery of our human experience.

I am seeing myself, my life and my work more clearly, and everyday presents an opportunity to share in love, connection and intimacy.

I am grateful - for this journey, this life and you!!

Thank you for being here, loving on me, and sharing in this adventure we call Life.

Captured here in ’s ropes on 6/5/2024. Brooklyn, NY.

(Hey Instagram - this is art. Don’t be weird about it)

12/15/2024

Our final Blessed of the year is tonight, on the final full moon of 2024. 🌕

Connect with your body.

The wisdom within.

And the power of your own pleasure.

It’s so easily to focus on the external world.

This is your invitation to go within, and to explore the depths of your own life force energy.

We release in service of our collective evolution.

Get Blessed with us. Tonight, 8 PM ET 💋

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