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I’m grateful I get opportunities to lean in an truly listen to what women want out of dating. Recently, we asked women H...
10/16/2025

I’m grateful I get opportunities to lean in an truly listen to what women want out of dating.

Recently, we asked women Hinge daters what’s importaant to them this cuffing season and we found that ā€œEffortā€ is more important that having a partner who makes more than them!

I got to sit down with the amazing to talk at to talk about effort in dating. This article is amazing! You should check it out at the link in my bio and in stories.

Like, save, and share this post to come back to for later! Also, follow me for more relationship insights!!

Photos with Hingie are a must whenever I’m in the office. šŸ–¤I’m so grateful to have spent the last couple of days in NYC ...
10/15/2025

Photos with Hingie are a must whenever I’m in the office. šŸ–¤

I’m so grateful to have spent the last couple of days in NYC at the Comms Summit with . Joy is not full enough of a word to describe what I feel every day getting to do the work that I Love at . šŸ«¶šŸ¾šŸ–¤

Honored. Humbled. Blessed. Visible. Grateful. And more than anything, I feel inspired by the collective dream for a world where all people are free to live and love authentically and proudly!

It’s an absolute honor to be part of such a loving and connected team of humans at — my perfect match in every way. šŸ–¤



For more love ā¤ļø + relationship šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆšŸ«¶šŸ¾+ energyšŸ§˜šŸ¾ā€ā™‚ļø, follow for regular relationship advice!

I sat down with the amazing  for a conversation about what Black women really want from dating in 2025! Turns out, Black...
10/09/2025

I sat down with the amazing for a conversation about what Black women really want from dating in 2025! Turns out, Black women on Hinge said that effort is more important than a partner having a higher income than them!

Also, Black women said emotional availability is the top high value trait in a partner!

Read the full article on Essence.com or follow my link in bio!

In honor of one of the muses who reminds me that art is devotion, that every line, every gesture, every image can be a p...
09/23/2025

In honor of one of the muses who reminds me that art is devotion, that every line, every gesture, every image can be a prayer offered to the brilliance of the Black feminine and to all who see themselves reflected here.

This is my love letter to Black women, and Black q***r energies who celebrate themselves and each other with joy, fire, and unapologetic realness. Y’all are the masterpiece.

Backstory: Tiff said it’s been a while since I’ve painted or drawn something. I took it as a nudge to show her what I see, through my eyes.

This piece began with her hand, but it was never only about her hand. It was about the spirit it carried. The sass and the sensual. The fresh full set that speaks of care. The regality that cannot be contained. The language of Black femme energy, spoken without words.

Art is my way of bowing. Of saying thank you. Of preserving the beauty and power that too often goes unnamed. Black women have been my teachers, my mirrors, my guides, my muses. To create in their honor is to honor life itself.

May you feel yourself in this work. May you see your radiance here. May you remember that you are not just seen, you are cherished.

Because art is not just image. Art is devotion.

May anyone who gazes on this art feel affirmed. When I see her hands, I see hands that should be adorned in gold because they’ve held, nurtured, poured, pushed, prayed, anchored, played, promised, and often procured her wildest dreams…

This drawing is my love letter to the ancient wisdom of femininity. The ancestors who knew how to affirm with a look or a smile. The ancestors who knew how to have joy through anything. Thank you for your love. Thank you for your joy. I see you goddesses. Deepest bow. āš”ļøāœØšŸ’«šŸ«¶šŸ¾- Moe Ari

It’s been a few full moons since I shared updates. Life has been expanding. I’ve been grounding during the transformatio...
08/08/2025

It’s been a few full moons since I shared updates. Life has been expanding. I’ve been grounding during the transformation. There has been so much change so I’ve found myself going more Inward and in deep reflection.

I’m feeling the newness in my life and I’m bowing deeply at the gift of fresh starts and ā€œfirstsā€ and returns. I’m feeling deeply held in my quiet. Starting to feel capacious. āœØšŸ«¶šŸ¾

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What’s wild to me is this: I didn’t grow up without emotions.
I grew up without the language and safety to name them.If ...
05/05/2025

What’s wild to me is this: I didn’t grow up without emotions.
I grew up without the language and safety to name them.
If I’m being honest, I spent years performing manhood.
I thought if I was strong enough, steady enough, stoic enough—maybe I’d finally feel like enough.

But here’s the truth nobody tells us: you can’t prove your way into masculinity.
You can’t perform your way into wholeness.
Every message I got said: be a provider, be a protector, be unbreakable. But nobody taught me how to stay emotionally present while protecting and providing.

Nobody taught me how to hold others without losing the ability to hold myself. If I was going to make it as a man, a father, a husband, I felt like I had to earn masculinity. To perform it louder, harder, sharper.

But somewhere along the way, I realized:
real strength is softness.
Real masculinity is presence.
Real courage is letting yourself feel.
I wish we taught boys that from the start.
I wish we gave men permission to stay open.

✨ Because the men you call ā€œdistantā€ are often just untaught.
Unseen.
Unasked.
Unheld.

We’ve learned how to protect, provide, and procreate—
but nobody taught us how to stay present with our hearts.

That’s why I do this work. That’s why I created my frameworks for emotional fluency.

Because we don’t need more perfect men.
We need men who are learning how to feel.

If this resonates, save this, share this with a man you love, and follow me for more. Let’s keep building this conversation. šŸ–¤
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If you’re always holding the space, doing the check-ins, and soothing the silence…You’re not in a situationship.You’re d...
04/24/2025

If you’re always holding the space, doing the check-ins, and soothing the silence…

You’re not in a situationship.
You’re doing emotional labor—with no clarity, no commitment, no return.

Love isn’t casual when it costs you peace.

We deserve relationships that come with care, clarity, and capacity—not just chemistry.

Repost if you’re reclaiming your peace and your worth.






We don’t need to ā€œfixā€ modern love.We need to learn how to feel in it.Today, I launched my new Substack:šŸ–¤ Fluent in Love...
04/22/2025

We don’t need to ā€œfixā€ modern love.
We need to learn how to feel in it.

Today, I launched my new Substack:
šŸ–¤ Fluent in Love
A guide to modern intimacy in a tech-shaped world—helping us feel more, fear less, and evolve our theories of love into consistent daily practices.

My first piece is live:
šŸ“– The Emotional Wealth Gap: Why So Many of Us Feel Alone in Love—Even When We’re ā€œDoing the Workā€

This isn’t a hot take.
It’s a love letter.
To everyone still feeling unseen while healing.
To those who know the theory, but still long for the practice.
To those craving connection that doesn’t require performance.

šŸ’Œ Subscribe now [link in bio]
šŸ“¤ Share this with someone rewriting their love story—one emotionally fluent moment at a time.

Let’s build the love we desire—together.šŸ«¶šŸ¾šŸ’«

Work is a relationship too. šŸ’ŒThe way we speak to each other at work is relational—and most of us were taught to sound ā€œp...
04/15/2025

Work is a relationship too. šŸ’Œ

The way we speak to each other at work is relational—and most of us were taught to sound ā€œprofessional,ā€ but not to be emotionally present.

We’re fluent in urgency.
We’re fluent in performance.
But we’re not fluent in trust. In care. In repair.
And that’s what people are really leaving behind.

✨ This post shows what emotionally fluent leadership looks like—in everyday emails.

šŸ“© Save this. Share it in your team group chat.

Tag the leader you needed.
Tag the one who’s already doing this right.

Because the best leaders lead with heart.

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šŸ–Šļø Moe Ari Brown, LMFT
Relationship Expert • TEDx Speaker • Love & Connection Expert @ Hinge

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