04/13/2026
Can you relate?
hiding what you want doesnât keep him
it keeps you stuck
stuck overthinking
stuck settling for mixed signals
stuck calling inconsistency âpotentialâ
youâre not too much for wanting clarity
youâve just been taught to be palatable instead of honest
the women who find healthy relationships arenât playing it cool
theyâre clear
theyâre direct
theyâre unavailable for confusion
clarity is what attracts emotionally available men
not silence
not guessing
not âgoing with the flowâ
you only need one man who meets you there
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