Kristin M. Davin, Psy.D.

07/31/2025

Join us for our free event!

Good investors know the market. Great ones know their mind.

Join James E. Demmert, Founder & CIO of Main Street Research, and Licensed Psychologist Dr. Kristin Davin, PsyD, for a free webinar on how human psychology impacts our biggest investing decisions.

Learn how to train your brain, manage fear and greed, and make smarter investment choices.

📅 Thursday, August 7th, 2025
⏰ 4 PM EST / 1 PM PST
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This is perfect for investors and anyone curious about how the mind works when money’s involved. Invite a friend — see you there!

Overcoming Fear, Greed and Being Your Own Worst Enemy

07/25/2025

💔 Ever felt like you were someone’s everything… and then suddenly, nothing?

That emotional high followed by painful silence isn’t love; it’s a tactic.
Love-bombing floods you with attention to gain control, and ghosting pulls the rug out just when you start to trust.
It’s not your fault if you were drawn in; these patterns are designed to confuse, hook, and destabilize.

But you can break free.
You can learn the signs, reclaim your worth, and stop mistaking intensity for intimacy.

✨ Real love won’t make you question your value or leave you in the dark.

💡 Our newest blog breaks it all down so you can protect your peace and rebuild from truth, not trauma.

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07/24/2025

💔 Still thinking about them, even though it’s over?
You’re not weak; you might be stuck in a fantasy bond. It feels real, but it’s more about unmet hopes than genuine connection.

✨ These emotional patterns often come from old wounds, keeping you attached to “what could have been” instead of what actually was.

💡 Healing starts when you stop blaming yourself and start understanding the emotional illusion. You deserve peace, clarity, and love rooted in reality, not fantasy.

📖 Read the latest blog to uncover the signs of fantasy bonds and learn how to finally let go with compassion.
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https://www.reflectionsfromacrossthecouch.com/blog/why-you-cant-let-go-how-fantasy-bonds-create-emotional-obsession-after-breakups

07/17/2025

💭 Ever feel like you’re trying to love someone, but deep down, you’re stuck waiting to be rescued?

You’re not broken; you’re likely reenacting an old story.
Fantasy bonds form when childhood wounds convince us that love means longing, fixing, or proving our worth.

💔 If relationships feel emotionally one-sided, or you often feel invisible or anxious in love, there might be a deeper pattern at play.
This isn’t just about romance; it’s about learning to feel safe, seen, and whole on your own terms.

✨ Healing starts with clarity. You deserve real connection, not just the illusion of it.

💡 Read the latest blog to explore how childhood wounds can keep you stuck and how to reclaim the love you actually need.

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https://www.reflectionsfromacrossthecouch.com/blog/the-fantasy-bond-how-childhood-wounds-keep-you-stuck-in-unhealthy-relationships

07/12/2025

💭 Ever feel like you’re stuck in the same relationship patterns, no matter how much you grow or how hard you try to choose differently?
You’re not alone, and you’re not broken. These cycles often start in childhood and silently shape what you tolerate, expect, and accept.

✨ Healing isn’t just about awareness; it’s about taking small, intentional steps to change your story. You deserve love that feels safe, mutual, and true to who you are today, not who you had to be in the past.

💡 Read the latest blog to learn 5 practical steps to break old patterns and start building the relationships you truly want.
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https://www.reflectionsfromacrossthecouch.com/blog/5-practical-steps-to-break-old-relationship-patterns-for-good

07/11/2025

You were the one everyone depended on. The reliable one. The person who always said “yes.”
But now you’re wondering… when do you get to put yourself first?

Letting go of people-pleasing isn’t just about deciding to stop; it’s about unlearning guilt, practicing new ways to communicate, and giving yourself permission to matter. 💛

✨ You deserve relationships that respect your limits.
You deserve time and energy for what truly fulfills you.

📘 The Boundaries Workbook is a 218-page guide to help you stop overgiving, set clear limits, and build self-respect that lasts. Inside, you’ll find reflection exercises, real-life scripts, and tools to help you say no without guilt.

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07/09/2025

💭 Have you ever wondered why you stay in patterns that drain you, even when you know you deserve better?

Sometimes, it’s not about willpower; it’s about the hidden beliefs and old stories running the show behind the scenes. 🚩

Before you blame yourself or someone else, pause and get curious. Reflection is where real change begins.

✨ You deserve relationships built on clarity, honesty, and mutual respect, not unspoken expectations and guilt.

💡 Read the latest blog to explore 5 powerful “why” questions that can transform how you see your relationships and yourself.

Click the link to read more:
https://www.reflectionsfromacrossthecouch.com/blog/5-why-questions-that-can-change-the-way-you-see-your-relationships

07/05/2025

💔 Healing after a toxic relationship isn’t just about moving on; it’s about learning to trust yourself again.
If you feel stuck in cycles of self-blame, fear, or wondering if you’re worthy of healthy love, you’re not alone. These wounds run deep, but they don’t have to define you.

✨ With the right support and reflection, you can release old shame, rebuild your self-trust, and create connections that feel safe and nourishing.

💡 Read the latest blog to discover simple, powerful steps to heal and grow after toxicity.
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https://www.reflectionsfromacrossthecouch.com/blog/how-to-heal-and-grow-after-a-toxic-relationship

07/03/2025

💭 You were the “strong one.” The helper. The one who always kept it together.
But now you’re wondering… how do you finally put yourself first?

Letting go of old roles takes more than just awareness; it takes reflection, healing, and learning to meet your own needs. 💔

✨ You don’t have to keep carrying what was never yours.
You can reclaim your peace, rebuild your boundaries, and reconnect with your inner child.

📘 Parentified No More is a 36-page healing workbook filled with journaling prompts, somatic tools, and emotional release exercises designed to help you let go of old patterns and start healing.

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06/30/2025

💭 Do you feel like you’re always the grown-up in your relationship, carrying the weight of every conflict and emotion?

That constant responsibility isn’t love; it’s a sign of emotional immaturity quietly draining your peace. 🚩
When you’re met with blame-shifting, defensiveness, or denial every time you try to connect, it’s not because you’re “asking for too much.” It’s because your needs are being minimized.

✨ You deserve a relationship where accountability is shared and your feelings are respected.
💡 Read the latest blog to learn 14 signs of an emotionally immature partner and how to protect your well-being without guilt.
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https://www.reflectionsfromacrossthecouch.com/blog/14-signs-of-an-emotionally-immature-partner

06/22/2025

💭 You saw the red flags, but now you’re left wondering, what’s next?
Recognizing toxic patterns is a powerful first step, but real healing takes more than walking away. It takes reflection, boundaries, and self-trust. 💔

You don’t have to stay stuck in shame, self-doubt, or fear of repeating the past.
✨ You can reclaim your voice, rebuild your peace, and move forward with clarity.

💖 Save this post if you're ready to take your healing seriously, not just survive, but grow from what happened.

Read more on the blog:
https://www.reflectionsfromacrossthecouch.com/blog/the-red-flag-recovery-plan-5-steps-to-heal-reflect-and-move-forward

06/19/2025

💭 Do you feel emotionally drained or dismissed in your relationship even when nothing “big” is wrong?
That exhaustion might be more than stress. It could be quiet red flags chipping away at your self-worth. 🚩

Feeling like you’re walking on eggshells, doing all the emotional labor, or being called “too sensitive” isn’t just a rough patch; it’s a sign your peace is being compromised.

✨ You deserve a relationship where your voice is heard and your emotional energy is protected.

💡 Read the latest blog to learn 10 subtle red flags that can’t be ignored and how to respond with clarity and confidence.

Click the link to read more:
https://www.reflectionsfromacrossthecouch.com/blog/10-relationship-flags-you-shouldnt-ignore