
07/10/2025
Sometimes, no amount of problem-solving, planning, or pushing can change a painful reality. That’s where radical acceptance comes in. It’s not approval, it’s not giving up. It’s the courageous act of saying:
“This is what’s happening right now. I may not like it, but I accept it.”
✨ What is Radical Acceptance?
A core Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skill, radical acceptance is the full embrace of reality as it is, without denial, resistance, or judgment.
✨ Why it helps:
• Reduces suffering caused by fighting reality
• Helps regulate overwhelming emotions
• Creates space for peace and wise decision-making
• Keeps you grounded when control isn’t an option
✨ How to practice it:
• Notice what you’re resisting (a breakup, diagnosis, loss, rejection)
• Acknowledge the facts, even if they hurt
• Say to yourself: “This is what’s happening, and I don’t have to like it to accept it.”
• Let go of “shoulds” and “if onlys” that fuel suffering
• Repeat as often as needed—acceptance is a practice
📌 Radical acceptance doesn’t mean you agree with what happened.
It means you stop arguing with reality—so you can begin to heal.
Need help learning how to do this in your own life?
Our therapists at Practical Online Therapy are here to support you with grounded, compassionate care.
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