Step Out of Your Story

Step Out of Your Story Life is the ultimate character development workout. My counseling practice and writing workshops strengthen emotional muscles for satisfaction and success.

Every life is an unfolding story, a unique, dynamic, sacred story that is open to interpretation, especially your own. As an holistic psychotherapist, workshop facilitator, published author, and “deep soul diver,” I help people find their authentic voice so they can rewrite old self-defeating scripts, and create a life that both honors and expresses their deeper needs, values, and gifts in their personal and professional relationships. PSYCHOTHERAPY: I am a Certified Internal Family Systems (IFS) psychotherapist with the Psychotherapy and Spirituality Institute. Serving all of NY state via tele-health, with limited office visits in NYC and the Hudson Valley, I see adults of all ages managing difficult transitions. As a spiritually-oriented therapist, I consider myself a midwife of sorts, helping people navigate the narrow bridge of difficult life transitions and give birth to more fulfilled version of themselves. In addition to Internal Family Systems, I integrate my knowledge of the enneagram, Jungian archetypes, Focusing, CBT, tapping, psychodynamics, and narrative therapy. I also enjoy helping people get clarity around their identity and personal beliefs as pertains to religion, spirituality, and existential angst. WORKSHOPS: For the past 15 years, I have offered a variety of self discovery writing workshops at such venues as the New York Open Center, the 92nd Street Y, the JCC of Manhattan, Trinity Wall Street, Vassar College, and Sivananda Yoga Ashram in the Bahamas. I have also lectured on the spirituality of crisis and conflict at NYU’s Post-Graduate certificate program in Social Work and Spiritual Care and PSI’s Summer Certificate Program in Spiritually Informed Psychotherapies, and on the Enneagram and Empathy at Alephi University. More recently, I began offering IFS Writing Labs that help people access more self compassion and curiosity towards different parts of themselves. PUBLICATIONS: I am the author of Step Out of Your Story: Writing Exercises to Reframe and Transform Your Life (New World Library, 2016). You can also read my blog "The Novel Perspective" on Psychology Today. ONLINE COURSE: My self-paced online DailyOm course, Reframing Your Narrative About Challenging Relationships, offers perspective-bending writing exercises including IFS-inspired dialogues with triggered parts. For as little as $19, you will receive a weekly lesson with writing exercises and meditations. SPEAKING ENGAGEMENTS: I am available for speaking engagements and corporate workshops. Please email me at Stepoutofyourstory@gmail.com for rates and more information.

I’m excited to share my latest Psychology Today post on why Internal Family Systems (IFS) and the Enneagram are such a p...
09/03/2025

I’m excited to share my latest Psychology Today post on why Internal Family Systems (IFS) and the Enneagram are such a powerful healing duo. Together, they help us loosen old patterns, heal core wounds, and reconnect with our true selves.
I’m currently welcoming new psychotherapy clients who are curious about integrating these two illuminating modalities into their growth journey.

How two frameworks unlock deeper healing and self-understanding

Thrilled to announce that, after a year of intensive study,  I'm now a Certified Enneagram Professional with Russ Hudson...
07/09/2025

Thrilled to announce that, after a year of intensive study, I'm now a Certified Enneagram Professional with Russ Hudson and Jessica Dibb. The Enneagram is a sacred map of the psyche—revealing the deep patterns that shape how we think, feel, and relate, and guiding us toward the truth of who we are beneath our defenses. I'm looking forward to integrating enneagram wisdom into my IFS psychotherapy practice, and creating workshops and programs that invite healing, wholeness, and self-compassion through the synergy of these two powerful models. Learn more about the enneagram here.. self.

Learn about Enneagram history, how the system works, the 9 dominant personality types, and the RHETI Enneagram personality test.

It was my honor and pleasure to offer "Writing with Internal Family Systems" this past weekend to over a dozen therapist...
05/06/2025

It was my honor and pleasure to offer "Writing with Internal Family Systems" this past weekend to over a dozen therapists with the Hudson Valley Guild for Mental Health Professionals.

It's been awhile, but Im back on the blog....    "Sometimes caring for yourself is the only and best option, especially ...
02/07/2025

It's been awhile, but Im back on the blog....
"Sometimes caring for yourself is the only and best option, especially if you’re very depressed or going through a rough life transition like divorce, grief, unemployment, health issues, or a demanding caregiving situation. Metaphorically speaking, if the house next door is burning, one solid choice is to go outside and join your neighbors in hosing down the fire. But what if the water is off and there is a massive boulder blocking your door?"

Political anxiety is taking up more space on the therapy couch during these times. Despite the pressure to act, sometimes it still makes sense to put on your own oxygen mask first.

LAST CHANCE to purchase my new Intro to IFS course @ 50 % off!  Black Friday sales end tonight at midnight. 10 lessons (...
12/04/2024

LAST CHANCE to purchase my new Intro to IFS course @ 50 % off! Black Friday sales end tonight at midnight. 10 lessons (including writing exercises and mediations) for only $23.50 = A BARGAIN!!!

https://yogaforlifeonline.com/compassion-bootcamp/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR1eVfh0wY4JcuC_m-0GrShcPX_Bicdlh6TLw8C9m1ZG3DcAdgPF1DNTxSQ_aem_uUKdna0ACUw_X6M9WFwKJQ

Embark on a transformative 10-lesson course combining video lessons and guided journaling exercises. Led by Internal Family Systems Therapist Kim Schneiderman.

Thrilled to announce my new online course that combines perspective-bending writing exercises and meditations with Inter...
11/27/2024

Thrilled to announce my new online course that combines perspective-bending writing exercises and meditations with Internal Family Systems (IFS), also known as "parts work." In this deep yet gentle, self-paced inner workout, we’ll explore the parts of ourselves that sometimes feel in conflict—whether it’s fear, guilt, or doubt—and learn to embrace them with empathy and understanding. ONLY $23.50 DURING BLACK FRIDAY WEEK.

Embark on a transformative 10-lesson course combining video lessons and guided journaling exercises. Led by Internal Family Systems Therapist Kim Schneiderman.

Is your inner critic getting you down? Is it preventing you from taking risks and living your best life? In this interac...
02/05/2024

Is your inner critic getting you down? Is it preventing you from taking risks and living your best life? In this interactive online workshop, you will complete perspsective-bending writing exercises that help you understand what motivates your inner critic, and how to soften it so that you can experience more self compassion.This course integrates Internal Family Systems (IFS), also known as "parts work," to help people love themselves in ways that no one has loved them before.

Learn perspective-bending writing exercises to disarm inner critics and generate more self compassion

There are still spots open for this Sunday's writing workshop! Register now before it's too late.
01/22/2024

There are still spots open for this Sunday's writing workshop! Register now before it's too late.

Explore the parts of you that prioritize other people's needs over your own in this Internal Family Systems (IFS)-inspired writing workshop.

Save 10% when you register by Jan. 14!
01/10/2024

Save 10% when you register by Jan. 14!

Registration is open. Save 10% when you register by Jan. 14 with the promo code EARLYBIRD
01/08/2024

Registration is open. Save 10% when you register by Jan. 14 with the promo code EARLYBIRD

Looking forward to "Mental Health for Techno-Sapiens: Spiritually-Informed Psychotherapy for a (Dis)Connected World" wit...
01/07/2024

Looking forward to "Mental Health for Techno-Sapiens: Spiritually-Informed Psychotherapy for a (Dis)Connected World" with the The Psychotherapy & Spirituality Institute, where I have been a staff therapist for the past 7 years.

WHEN: Friday, February 2, 10:00 am - 4:00 pm ETWHERE: Either ONLINE or in-person at Trinity Commons, 76 Trinity Place, NYCDigital technology is fundamentally changing what it means to be human. On an individual level, we are more reliant than ever on our smartphones, leading one scholar to conclude....

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