Embodied Relationships

09/14/2025

In the past I would have thought this quote was not true. Now I see how loving myself fiercely is so good for my relationship, and that love that I have for myself helps me to speak up, and say what I feel, need and what is going on for me. Does this resonate with you?

09/11/2025

Speak your truth to minimize w**ds in your relationship using the “Weed Check” Method

Weeds in a garden if not spotted and addressed can take over and destroy a beautiful garden

“Relationship w**ds” if not regularly spotted and addressed can destroy a relationship

Spot new w**ds:

A Feeling and/or sensations in your body.

Such Feeling sad, angry, afraid, lonely.

Sensation such as tight jaw, empty feeling in chest, uncomfortable feeling in your belly.

Name the w**d:

To yourself and ask yourself what you need.

Then take the chance and say to your partner something like:

“I’ve noticed I’ve been feeling a little distant lately, and I think it’s worth talking about.”

Invite your partner:

“Can we look at this together before it grows into something bigger?”

"I noticed that I want to withdraw from you, related to a feeling that I am having, and I’d feel better if we could talk it through together instead of me pulling away. "

09/09/2025

Sometimes I feel like relationships are expansive and sometimes I feel like that isn’t the case! And you?

09/02/2025

Letting everyone know of a really valuable opportunity for couples to deepen their relationships. Melissa and Sanjay are offering this incredible experience.. Click to find out about it.

Embodied Relationships offers non-traditional somatic based couples support

08/22/2025

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10/14/2021

I want to introduce you to my new book. As we are going through profound changes in our environment as well as in our social consciousness, I felt it was time to make a statement about the immense power of deep relationship. Relative to Everything makes the case that necessary adaptations to a new world begin with how we relate to those closest to us. Our committed relationships are suffering from unsustainable patterns of living. The future will need to be one that is more reliant on our social support networks, but sadly we have drifted far apart over the past few generations. Our relationship skills are going to be a crucial part of adapting to a more sustainable planet. Relative to Everything is my attempt to examine how we can cultive the kind of relationships we will require. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09HZ2P4VV

Relative to Everything - Reclaiming Intimacy in a Time of Global Crisis

07/26/2021

Join us this October for our first in-person training since pre-Covid. Working with committed couples from an embodied perspective is a profoundly powerful way to invite lasting growth. Find out more here: https://www.exceptionalmarriage.com/training

11/04/2019

08/26/2019

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Some of the ugliest fights I have ever witnessed between partners in a committed relationship stem from disputes over recall. To have one’s memory challenged is a call to arms. We all like to believe in the order and coherency of our brain’s function of recollection.