Mayne Viscichini

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05/22/2024

Being a "Queen" πŸ‘Έ from a Kid's perspective.

πŸ‘§ Adrienne: When I grow up, I want to be a Queen!

πŸ‘¦ Ethan: If you want to be a queen, then you have to be with a king.

πŸ‘§ Adrienne: Okaaaaaaaay.

πŸ‘¦ Ethan: And if you want to be a queen, you need to lead the world with a king. You need to make sure everybody is doing the right thing! And, it's going to be a looooooooooooot of hard work. Okay, Adrienne?

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To desire something great comes with great responsibility. And anything great in this world requires a looooooooooot of hard work. 🫢

In honor of my son, Ethan, "graduating" from the Toddler Stage, I will be posting Tips on Raising Toddlers that helped o...
05/21/2024

In honor of my son, Ethan, "graduating" from the Toddler Stage, I will be posting Tips on Raising Toddlers that helped our kiddos and family as Full-Time Ministers.

😴 Tip #1: HAVE A SLEEP SCHEDULE 😴

Sleep training is NOT SOLELY to get your baby to sleep through the night. Sleep Training is having an AGE-APPROPRIATE SLEEP SCHEDULE for your toddler.

For Ethan, our life (at that time) demanded for me to sleep train him at 7 weeks. And boy! I'm forever grateful for it!

✨️ TOP BENEFITS OF SLEEP TRAINING ✨️

1. It put me and my baby/toddler on a predictable schedule. πŸ•‘πŸ˜΄

- Knowing when my kiddo is going down for a nap and bedtime allows me to predict and plan when to get things done... and predictable schedules are EVERYTHING! It allows me and my husband to schedule our dates and appointments (bible studies, doctor appointments, phone calls, counseling times, traveling, etc). It, ultimately, help keep my sanity, and the babysitters know what to do!

2. It lessens the tantrum. 😌🀌

- Kids with adequate sleep are pleasant kids to be around! Sleepy or tired toddlers tend to be more emotional, "rowdy", easily overstimulated, and have difficulty responding to commands/discipline. Whenever my toddler seemed to be "out of whack" or doing things out of the ordinary, my go-to solution is to reset the sleep schedule or check their nutrition intake for that day (obviously, this doesn't account for major life transitions, going to daycare, moving places, traveling, etc).

3. It makes attending church meetings "easier". β›ͺοΈπŸ™

- I sleep-trained the kids around the Church meeting schedule (Matt. 6:33). Because of it, I am able to feel at peace whenever I leave my kiddos to babysitters to attend nighttime church meetings. It also allowed the babysitters to tune in to the online service they are missing since my kiddos' bedtime is arranged before the service starts. (This helped me to feel guilt-free whenever asking for help with my children). And for the afternoon naps, it allowed me to prepare and make arrangements whenever I have afternoon meetings.

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My main resource to learning sleep-training is the book BabyWise and blogs about it! There are different methods of sleep training. Do what you feel comfortable the most doing! Sleep training will require 1 week to 1.5 weeks of buckling down. It needs your full attention and consistency for it to work. Your "normal" world will stop during this period, but I promise you, it's worth it!!!

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✨️DM me if you need help or have any questions!✨️

✨️ IT'S OKAY TO SLOW DOWN & PAUSE. ✨️For 2 weeks now, Ethan has asked to sit on a bench in Central Park and eat his snac...
05/09/2024

✨️ IT'S OKAY TO SLOW DOWN & PAUSE. ✨️

For 2 weeks now, Ethan has asked to sit on a bench in Central Park and eat his snacks after school pickup. This has forced me to slow down, pause, stop, and be present for him and with him... and for that, I'm grateful!!

God used my son to remind me of what's important versus what's urgent! City life makes you feel and believe that every task on your list is urgent, causing you to forget what truly matters in life β€” TIME with your loved ones.

Here are questions I've had to ask myself to help with the MIND-SHIFT:

πŸ’™πŸ©· In a few days, will I be happier that I finished my list, or will I be happier that I spent time with my children?

πŸ©·πŸ’™ Am I able to rearrange some things so I can be present and spend more time with my kiddos?

πŸ’™πŸ©· My kiddos will not be with me forever, so what memories do I want them to have??

So, to my mama friends, the next time you're mentally consumed with your to-do list, don't forget to also include "PAUSE" and "BE PRESENT" on that list. βœ…οΈ

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"He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart... I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toilβ€”this is the gift of God." - Ecclesiastes 3:11-13

This post is inspired by my 5yo, who's been complaining about how much he doesn't like homework. πŸ˜†πŸ˜‚Though setting goals ...
05/09/2024

This post is inspired by my 5yo, who's been complaining about how much he doesn't like homework. πŸ˜†πŸ˜‚

Though setting goals is awesome, it's not a secret to anyone that it will come with challenges. When those challenges come, remember that God is trying to teach you something important, something that will deepen your faith, strengthen your character, & bring you closer to Him!

So, don't give up! You got this!! πŸ’ͺ

P.S. Don't underestimate the effects of lack of sleep. πŸ˜†πŸ˜‚

If you're looking to deepen your relationship with God through bible studies, DM me! πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜‰

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04/11/2024

Memories that I most treasure in my heart are when my kiddos ask me questions about God. πŸ₯Ή

When Ethan was 2yo, I heard him pray one time, "I'm hungry! God, help me!" πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚ Though I found his prayer funny, I was moved by the purity of his heart to ask God for help during times of hunger. πŸ˜†

Adrienne, as a 3yo, is still learning how to pray. She often thanked God for her food, even before bedtime πŸ˜†, but she loves coming with me on prayer walks.

As a Christian mom, the most important thing for me is for my children to learn & understand how much God loves them. πŸ’™πŸ©· And by showing them the heart of God, I pray that they can love Him in return.

✨️ How about you, Mamas? How do you teach your children about God? πŸ™‚

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