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10/08/2025

The Venn Diagram of Compatibility consists of these 4 things:
💥 S-xual Chemistry
🗣Narrative
🗓 Availability
🤗 Self-Expression

So what happens when some or most of these 4 areas don’t align in your current hookup/relationship/partnership/etc. - “Is this even a good idea?”

If you find yourself asking this question, it might be time to head to my and check out my workshop with Misha from SoulPlay Festivals

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10/07/2025

This Compatibility Venn Diagram might be having its way with you… but wait! There’s a chance to rid yourself of this problem!

Misha from SoulPlay Festivals & I are hosting just the class for you 👨🏼‍🏫👩🏻‍🏫

There’s still time to sign up and solve this Relationship Compatibility Riddle 🧩 Learn more about our 6-week course at my link in bio!

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10/06/2025

Want to reap all the benefits of s/xual community, while also healthily getting your needs met? 😛

Misha from SoulPlay Festivals and I want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’ve been wishing for, so we created a class for exactly that!

In our From Premature to Slut Secure class, we will share how to:
🧠 Reach a deeper understanding of how works
🚫 Avoid Premature attachment and lessen it’s hold on your heart
💦 Foster & maintain security in all of your juicy connection

During our 6 weeks of work together, we will host breakout rooms, coaching calls and Q+A sessions, while also providing recorded classes that teach you all the fundamentals to being a 🥰

Does this sound like the class for you? Learn more here: https://bit.ly/slutsecure

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Would you like to join yours truly and the amazing Wilrieke Sophia for a weekend of exploration into s*xy techniques, wi...
10/06/2025

Would you like to join yours truly and the amazing Wilrieke Sophia for a weekend of exploration into s*xy techniques, with LIVE explicit demos, and space to practice?

From Wilrieke's post...

The lovely and well-known seggs educator ReidAboutS*x (USA) is traveling to Utrecht once again to offer these events with me. Combining knowledge, experience, and tons of humour, each time participants leave with enthusiastic reviews.

Last year, participants for the sold-out one-day version of Show 'n Tell, then Try Practicum (happening THIS Friday and Saturday) begged us to make this into a full two-day event, with more space, more fun techniques (for all genders and body constellations!), and more time to play.

Here we go! (Keep reading to learn about the entire weekend full of events and experiences...)

✦ October 10-11 (daytime), Utrecht, Reid Mihalko & Wilrieke: Show ’n Tell, then Try Practicum

A truly unique two-day, clothing-optional workshop for people with some prior Red Play Party experience, where you’ll learn er0tic touch and intimacy skills through live demos and hands-on practice. Whether you’re solo or partnered, this is your chance to gain confidence, explore pleasure techniques, and receive supportive guidance in a playful, consent-centered space.

This is a clothes-optional, two-day, immersive experience in pleasure, presence, and play — all grounded in deep consent and trauma-awareness. We blend lecture, live demos, partner/solo practices, and time for questions & integration. You’ll see real bodies, real touch, real moments — and get support in bringing it into your own pleasure life.

🌈 Open to all genders, orientations, bodies & relationship styles. Practice solo, with a partner, or find someone to explore with on-site (no guarantees, though — we support but don’t matchmaker!).

🛠️ What You'll Learn:
✔️ Tools to track arousal, stay present & read bodies
✔️ Sensual touch, oral techniques, and pleasure mapping
✔️ Slow & mindful activation of pelvic pleasure pathways
✔️ Prostate play, strap-on confidence, and more
✔️ How to play together without pressure
✔️ Tips for turning “oops” moments into connection Every demo is followed by optional Try Time — guided, supported, or simply witnessed.

Link in Bi😘

Happy Day of Days to my husband and partner of nearly 19-years,  !I can’t be with Allison today, in-person, on her birth...
10/03/2025

Happy Day of Days to my husband and partner of nearly 19-years,  !

I can’t be with Allison today, in-person, on her birthday... But if you want to help celebrate this amazing author and college teacher on her birthday, please tell all your friends who need it, to go to Allison’s website GirlS*x101 dot com and buy any of her amazing books - Girl Seggs 101, Bad D**e, Getting It, and her le***an werewolves books, Lunatic Fringe & Hungry Ghost (Tales of the Pack, Books 1 & 2)... 

And if you have read any of Allison’s books, a wonderful gift to give authors is to leave a book review on your favorite book website so others can discover their work for themselves! 📚🤩🎂

Happy birthday, darling!

10/01/2025

How many times have you (or someone you know) started dating someone with whom you clicked, only to find yourself madly in love with them ASAP... And then, a year later, find yourselves mad at each other and no longer in love? (And still emotionally attached in unhealthy ways?)

The Myth: "Keeping it casual" means not caring about people.

The Truth (or at least MY truth): Most people have never learned how to care deeply about folks AND "keep it casual" (A.K.A. not fall in love) when there is amazing s/x & chemistry.

The Challenge: How do you 1) care... while 2) fostering amazing s/x and chemistry... while 3) slowing down the falling in love & emotionally attaching to someone prematurely long enough so everyone involved can figure out IF they want to start a Relationship with a capital "R"? Find out tomorrow night!

Misha Bonaventura and yours truly are running our From Premature Attachment to workshop again, and one week from today we are running the 2-hour workshop version of the course, hosted by Plura!

Tickets and more information are in the comments.

Most of us were never given real guidance about intimacy.We weren’t taught how to:✦ Ask for what we want✦ Listen deeply ...
10/01/2025

Most of us were never given real guidance about intimacy.

We weren’t taught how to:
✦ Ask for what we want
✦ Listen deeply to a partner
✦ Recognize what helps someone feel more pleasure

So we guess. We perform. We hope our partner just knows.

But intimacy can be practiced, like any other skill.
That’s what Reid and I will be teaching in Stockholm, Oct 2–5.

Together, we’ll explore:
✔ Practical ways to talk about intimacy without shame
✔ How to stay connected to your own body while giving
✔ How to sense what your partner truly needs to receive more pleasure
✔ Tools for communication that bring more ease into relationships

This is an intimate, non-judgmental space.
You don’t need experience. You just need curiosity.

📍Stockholm | October 2–5

Pleasure As Protest: Changing Your Life In A Stressed-Out World 🏵️ Live Discussion Panel
Show 'N Tell Bedroom Favorites (with LIVE Demos)
Rough Sxx For Nice Folks (with Reid Mihalko)
Sensual Play Party (with Reid Mihalko)
Oral Sxx Grad School (with Reid Mihalko)

💭 “It is so great to talk, watch and try things about sxx and intimacy in a context where it is considered normal to do ...
10/01/2025

💭 “It is so great to talk, watch and try things about sxx and intimacy in a context where it is considered normal to do so. And to find likeminded souls. What a relief!” – Matthias

💭 “The workshop had an impact on me, I am still thinking about the talks, the interactions and most of all about some of my mental limitations that I need to work on.” – Mihaela

Last weekend in Belgium reminded me why I love this work so much.
Because sxx and intimacy shouldn’t be taboo.
Because laughter, awkwardness, learning, experimenting and expanding together is where real transformation happens.

✨ From October 2–5 in Stockholm ✨
Reid and I will bring the next edition of this journey — with live demos, real talk, and plenty of space to explore, ask questions, and practice what most of us never got to learn.

👉 Join us if you’re ready for more aliveness, curiosity, and permission in intimacy.

Oct 2 Pleasure As Protest: Changing Your Life In A Stressed-Out World 🏵️ Live Discussion Panel
Oct 3 Show 'N Tell Bedroom Favorites (with LIVE Demos)
Oct 4 Rough Sxx For Nice Folks (with Reid Mihalko) & Sensual Play Party (with Reid Mihalko)
Oct 5 Oral Sxx Grad School (with Reid Mihalko)

What is Premature Attachulation?If you're looking for something silly AND serious to put a smile on your face... How abo...
09/28/2025

What is Premature Attachulation?

If you're looking for something silly AND serious to put a smile on your face... How about me and my friend Misha wearing matching rainbow onesies?

What the Heck Is Premature Attachulation?

"Premature attachulation" is a made-up term for when folks fall in love/become emotionally attached to someone too soon. Has that ever happened to you or someone you know?

Falling in love or getting attached too soon usually brings all sorts of stress and anxiety into a situation. That stress and anxiety can make some people avoidant (push the relationship/connection away) or anxious (cling to it for dear life).

But it doesn't have to be that way!

It's possible to create secure attachment, even if you're just having a casual fling or hookup.

Learn more about the ins and outs of creating healthy, secure connections and what YOU can do to have more ease & fun by watching the Instagram LIVE I did with the Bonobo Network's Misha Bonaventura... (by the way, this was from a couple of years back when we were first putting together our awesome course and having fun making up new phrases like attachulation 😆)
Watch the IG LIVE Here - https://www.instagram.com/p/CYClLDwl3z2/

Have I got you curious? Are you interested in becoming more ? Join us October 8th (This Wednesday!) — Misha and I are doing a 2-hour, primer class through the Plura Community app. Follow this link to learn more:

https://bit.ly/slutsecure

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Official page of s*x and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of http://ReidAboutS*x.com and @ReidAboutS*x on social media.

Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutS*x.com, Relationship10x.com, and S*x10xOnline.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health and satisfaction in and out of the bedroom using an inspiring mixture of humor, keen insight, and comprehensive s*xual health information.

Using humor, insight and solid information, Reid appeals to audiences of all orientations, backgrounds, ages, and identities. He’s one of the only male s*x and relationship experts touring the country today who can speak pragmatically to nearly all areas of s*xual self-expression, intimacy, dating and relating. Reid’s mission is to give men and women new tools to transform their love lives into fulfilling, satisfying, and sustainable expressions of self.I

n early 2018, some very brave people came forward sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.