07/13/2025
I’m approaching my 50th year and I have never felt more comfortable or confident in myself, my mind and my body (including all the mama tattoos and “wobbly bits”!) my silver crown!
Sometimes I thing I’ve worked it out too late - but better late than never right?
Sometimes I feel I wish I had had people or the words of wisdom earlier - but better now than never right?
Sometimes I think I wasn’t my authentic self - but we change who we are through our years right?
Everything I go through … the ups and downs … they are all things that make me who I am. And I LOVE who I am.
As a south asian woman growing up, it wasn’t easy to “own it” as we were told to not argue with elders, or not to be too argumentative as then you’re seen as aggressive.
I call BS to all that … be yourself! You can still be respectful and can come from a place of LOVE. But that shouldn’t be at a sacrifice of losing and presently who you are!
Go to that thing you’ve always wanted to do!
Go get photos done of you just for you!
Don’t wait! The time is now!