03/23/2026
🚨 WARNING, long post, strong language, necessary truthful content.🚨
"Your why"
No matter what we do in life we have to have a "why" that keeps us going. Maybe for some it's fame, fortune or getting yourself ahead in life.
For those that struggle with mental health or addiction your "why" could very easily mean the difference between life and death.
During the deep dark scary times that few people talk about. When the walls feel like they are closing in, the light seems to be fading, when it becomes hard to breathe and clarity seems like a foreign concept. At this point the voices and lies are deafening and consume every second of your thoughts and it's all you can hear, "I can't do this anymore or I don't deserve to be here, I just want the pain to stop."
The only thought that makes sense at this moment and the only way to escape the pain is to leave this world on your terms. This is the only thing that we seem to have control over in our life at this exact moment, whether we live or die.
If you have a "why" that's great, if you don't I strongly suggest you find one quickly. I don't care what it is. Just make sure your "why" is stronger than your strongest excuse. If it's not eventually the pain and the lies that our mind tells us will be victorious and we will be no more.
Your "why" needs to be used everyday. Even on the good days. Look at it, talk to it, touch it, smell it, hold it. Most of all thank it for allowing you to win every single one of your hardest moments.
Unfortunately not everyone has a "why" and we receive devistating news of the loss of another brother or sister that has left this world to soon. Yesterday was another one of those days. We received "the call" that no one wants to get, another one lost to the battle.
So what do we do? We reflect, we remember the good and not allow the pain of loss to consume us. We grieve in a healthy way. We allow our feelings to process. We persevere through adversity. We honor the ones we've lost and encourage the ones that are still here fighting. We keep advocating, holding space and supporting each other but most of all we keep f**cking going!
We appreciate and love everyone of you. Please leave a comment or show us a picture of your "why". As always we are here for you!
E.