Relationships With A Map

01/07/2026

You don’t have to have it all figured out to take the next step.

If your heart is tired and you’re craving more connection, peace, or clarity, a discovery call can help you see what’s possible, and what’s been missing. DM me and we’ll get scheduled!! 📅

01/06/2026

01/04/2026

Thoughts from a member of The Skilled Squad, the Group Coaching Program offered by myself and six other gifted coaches.

It’s so reassuring to know we are not alone in our mistakes, our misunderstandings of love and partnership, or the challenges of committing for life! ❤️

01/02/2026

My wish for my clients in 2026:

less overthinking, more peace.

less control, more connection.

less striving, more love.

You are not broken. Your marriage is not hopeless.

You’re just learning a new way forward—and you don’t have to walk it alone. ✨

12/27/2025

Here’s what’s interesting… the women in The Skilled Squad aren’t begging, reminding, or nagging, and their husbands are stepping up more than ever.

So what’s actually creating that shift?

What is it about a wife that invites a man to contribute… or quietly discourages him from doing so?

12/24/2025

Have you ever said something to your husband that you thought was a simple question and he flipped out?

This is the question that caused my clients husband to storm out of the room. Can you guess why?

12/11/2025

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT!

10 SPOTS ONLY!

Ladies, I’m opening 10 spots in the Skilled Squad from now until the end of December at the regular price of $99/month PLUS a special bonus I’ve never offered before!

Join the Skilled Squad for $99/month and receive my 12-Week Marriage Makeover Workbook (downloads instantly).

This workbook walks you through the exact skills, mindset shifts, and heart practices that create more peace, connection, and joy in your marriage, all in a simple beautiful, self-guided format.

And inside The Skilled Squad, you’ll get:

🫶A safe judgment-free space

🫶Women who “get it” and are practicing the same skills

🫶Support, encouragement, and connection 24/7

🫶Access to 6 highly trained coaches with unique perspectives and experiences

If you’ve been waiting for the “right” time, this is it!

Let’s finish this year with peace, love, and connection!

I’m ready to walk with you.👣

12/06/2025

What’s the hardest thing for you to stop controlling:
your schedule,
your husband,
your kids, or
your home?

12/04/2025

When we start practicing the skills in our marriage, it can feel like nothing is happening. We notice him, we notice his reactions, or lack of them, and we wonder, "Am I doing this right? Is it working?"

Here's the truth. These skills are for YOU first and foremost. They help you become the woman, wife, and mom you want to be. They build your peace, confidence and joy, even if he's not changing!

It's natural to notice his behavior along the way but don't measure your "success" by his response.
Keep going.
Stay the course.
Relinquish control of the timeline and of HIS PAPER.

Your paper is where YOUR POWER is!!

11/14/2025

Trust me, I've been married 31 years, and I've made pretty much every mistake along the way. If you are a woman who wants more peace, connection, and FUN in your marriage, I'd love to have you in my private FB group. 💖

It's a super encouraging space where I share quick tips, real conversations, and simple ways to feel closer and more confident at home. Plus, I go LIVE every Monday night and answer your questions about marriage!

You don't have to figure this out alone, there are SKILLS for a happy marriage and I'd love to share them with you!! 🧲

11/13/2025

Somewhere along the way, many of us started believing we were supposed to be superheroes, doing ALL the things for ALL the people with a smile on our face.

But that is not sustainable, and it’s not loving.

When we push past our limits, we end up exhausted, resentful, and quietly fuming that no one else seems to notice how hard we’re working!

It’s OK to ask for help.

It’s OK to rest.

It’s OK to be human.

What’s one task or responsibility you need to release or delegate today?

11/12/2025

I was talking to a client today who was frustrated about always having to cook dinner. 🍽️

When I asked her what her ideal scenario would look like, she realized something so simple, but freeing, her husband is great at cooking meat, and he actually enjoys it! The kids even prefer the way he does it.

Her pure desire was that he handle the meat, and she’d love to take care of the sides. Once she saw that, we talked about how she could express that desire in a positive, inviting way instead of letting it come out as a complaint.

Isn’t it wonderful how much more connection we create when we express what we DO want instead of what we DON’T? 👌🏼