
09/23/2025
For the first-time birther who’s holding both excitement and nerves… this one is for you. ✨
Birth is full of unknowns. It’s so easy for our minds to fill them with fear or worst-case scenarios. But what I’ve seen again and again as a doula is this: those unknowns can hold space for trust, magic, and connection too.
The truth no one really tells you? Life goes on in between the contractions.
There is laughter. There is rest. There are snacks, music, soft words, and deep breaths. There are kisses, whispers, tears, and moments of pride.
You don’t have to be afraid of the unknowns. You can allow them to surprise you, to steady you, to remind you that birth is not just intensity—it’s tenderness, love, and the fullness of this experience.
I believe in birth. And I believe in you.
stay golden ☀️
kat
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