Nolan’s Fan Club

Nolan’s Fan Club For everyone who’s a fan of the Nolan and all his shenanigans, we invite you to follow along as we attempt to navigate his world.

Seven years ago the hospital trusted us enough to keep Nolan alive and permitted us to finally bring him home. Nolan was...
04/09/2026

Seven years ago the hospital trusted us enough to keep Nolan alive and permitted us to finally bring him home. Nolan was soon unimpressed with his lack of 24/7 care from a mostly female staff, intrigued by this brother person, and very confused about the hairy and loud creatures that he suddenly shared space with.

(Which might explain why we were back in the hospital after his two month trial of “home” 😂)

Saw this shirt. Bought this shirt. It’s waay too big for him but it was definitely made for him! 😂
04/09/2026

Saw this shirt. Bought this shirt. It’s waay too big for him but it was definitely made for him! 😂

My super sweet and cuddly little boy, sleeping (and drooling) on me. Nothing could ruin this precious moment…..except my...
04/04/2026

My super sweet and cuddly little boy, sleeping (and drooling) on me. Nothing could ruin this precious moment…..except my bladder. Oh boy, I need to p*e.

This was Nolan’s first day wearing clothes. A very ambitious nurse took one look at his St Paddy’s Day onesie and said “...
03/17/2026

This was Nolan’s first day wearing clothes. A very ambitious nurse took one look at his St Paddy’s Day onesie and said “We’re gonna put it on him. He has to wear it.” As you can tell, he was very impressed by the experience.

This week on What Fresh F**kery is This: the new designer illness come to visit, the return of the ER trips that confuse...
03/05/2026

This week on What Fresh F**kery is This: the new designer illness come to visit, the return of the ER trips that confuse everyone, a surprise drop in from a bloody feeding tube, and the old friend Cough Assist comes to stay.
Tune in to watch us struggle through!

I look at this picture often. This was taken exactly seven years ago, the night before Nolan’s heart surgery. It reminds...
02/26/2026

I look at this picture often. This was taken exactly seven years ago, the night before Nolan’s heart surgery. It reminds me of what a fighter this kid is.

Seven. Seven!How can it be seven years since this kid came into the world and started driving the bus??Happy Birthday yo...
02/24/2026

Seven.
Seven!
How can it be seven years since this kid came into the world and started driving the bus??
Happy Birthday you sometimes sweet, always crazy, adorable, bossy, happy and wonderful boy!

(Oh and please feel free to sleep all night tonight.)

The last night of being six.
02/23/2026

The last night of being six.

Alright, definitely missed some days. We’ll try to get back on track. Hospital and StaffDuring Nolan’s first thirteen mo...
02/19/2026

Alright, definitely missed some days. We’ll try to get back on track.
Hospital and Staff
During Nolan’s first thirteen months, we spent a lot of time in the hospital. We’ve had a few stays and visits since then and I can honestly say we’ve met some amazing people. People who made things less scary. People who helped remind me my baby was a baby and not a science project. People who answered my dumb questions, offered comfort, checked in. People who cared. People who believed me when I said something wasn’t normal. People who attempted to get me to indulge in self care and occasionally step out of Nolan’s room. (Special shout out to my postpartum nurse who hunted my pathetic ass down in the NICU to give me my meds multiple times!)
I don’t think I could ever express how grateful I am to all these people. If you ever helped out with my little nugget during his visits, please know that I think you are so important and special.

When you’re just a little guy, fighting away.
02/09/2026

When you’re just a little guy, fighting away.

02/09/2026

I’ve missed some days, oops.
Diagnosis.
Nolan was diagnosed with a coarctation of the aorta and ventricular septal defect. (There’s also some debate if he had an atrial septal defect, but that was not the highest priority on the Oh S**t scale.)
In the land of CHD, these can be some of the more mild defects that can be solved with surgery and never cause problems again.
In terms of just the heart, that’s where his diagnosis’s end. But since the heart is a pretty important organ that does important things, that’s not where Nolan’s diagnosis’s end.
Nolan doesn’t follow rules or guidelines or “normal”.
Nolan’s brain did not receive enough oxygenated blood (thanks CHD) so he ended up with periventricular leukamalacia which in turn has given him a diagnosis of cerebral palsy.
When having his coarctation repaired, one of his vocal cord nerves was struck, giving him a paralyzed vocal cord (thanks CHD).
Nolan’s lungs were unprepared to be called into service since he was a bit underbaked when he was evicted. Combined with the VSD he had (thanks CHD) and the vocal cord that wasn’t properly protecting his airway, Nolan’s lungs were having a hell of a time doing their job.
Nolan had a feeding tube placed so he could receive food since he was unable to swallow without food ending up in his lungs. At first his feeding tube went into his stomach, but eventually had to be moved to his intestine to further protect his airway since he began vomiting spontaneously. (That was so much not fun, lemme tell ya.)
There’s a little more to the story and more things added to his list of ailments (Epilepsy (thanks PVL/CHD), Spina Bifida Occulta, Cortical Visual Impairment (thanks PVL/CHD)…) but we will leave those for another day since we’re in heart month.

Heart SiblingsI think David has loved Nolan since the moment he laid eyes on him. I don’t think David quite understood w...
02/05/2026

Heart Siblings
I think David has loved Nolan since the moment he laid eyes on him. I don’t think David quite understood when we told him he was getting a brother, but when he came to the hospital and was told this baby right here is your brother, he absolutely knew that he loved him.
He always has helped with getting things we need for Nolan or picking out toys for him. He loves to show things to Nolan and explain his books and games.
David has always just rolled with everything: hospital stays, ER runs, new equipment, appointments, and therapy. I am so proud of him for being strong through everything. There is no greater big brother than David.
And on the other side, Nolan has looked at David with fascination and adoration since day one. He will start bawling if he thinks anyone is scolding David and will even start crying if he thinks David is losing at play fighting with Dad. David always gets smiles and laughs from Nolan.
These two are quite a pair and we’re blessed to have them.

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